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We often hear the saying that love is sweet when we are in love, but once we enter marriage, there is a saying that marriage is the grave of love. After entering marriage, love becomes weak or stale. So does everyone introduce love into marriage? Or bring their love into marriage, and this love will disappear. Certainly not, then we will see a lot of people. After they have been married for many years, their love never changes color. Then a group of people think that marriage is the grave of love, and another group will be together for life and grow old together. How did the difference come about? I think I will discuss this problem with you today. That is, we need to study, in the relationship between husband and wife, in marriage and family, what factors have caused the disharmony between husband and wife? What factors may lead to family disintegration? What caused the family to have a crisis and eventually break up?
First of all, let me talk about what elements a marriage should have to be happy. So in fact, we are studying a couple, the marriage and family they have established together. When it is happy, we will consider many factors. So there are three points that we think are very important. Is there a basis? How about interaction? Are these two people equally devoted to this family? For example, there is a person who washes clothes and cooks, sweeps the floor and cleans, and goes out to work to earn the most money. Another person's contribution to the family itself is not great, and his income may not be as good as that of the person who washes clothes and cooks every day, but he either smokes or drinks tea and watches TV when he gets home. How do we feel when we have nothing to eat melon seeds and they are scattered everywhere? In this family, the efforts and gains of both husband and wife are very unbalanced. Then such a marriage cannot be called a happy marriage. Of course, if some families have domestic violence, there will be a bigger problem. If there is not enough communication between husband and wife in a family, how do they have problems in communication?
If the pay and gain in a family are unbalanced, what makes the old pay? What about the old harvest? When we deeply study these problems, observe and think about these problems behind these phenomena, we will find out whether the mental health of married couples is an important potential reason for a happy and harmonious marriage. So we think that today's lecture will discuss a person's mental health level and its influence on marriage and family life. Then we want to measure the level of mental health from a person's thinking, emotion, behavior, personality and other aspects to see how this person's mental health level will affect the family.
Then, there is a great relationship between mental health and the happiness of marriage and family, so in what way will these relationships be expressed? What factors may affect the relationship between mental health and happy marriage? What are the performances? First, for example, if a person has rational thinking, this person has rational thinking, and this person can easily get along with his lover. So our first question is called rational thinking and harmony between husband and wife. What is rational thinking? My attitude towards problems, evaluating problems and understanding problems is rational and conforms to the original truth of the world. Then rational thinking corresponds to irrational thinking, which is life! . . .