? Two years have passed, and people around me have come and gone. After a long time, I want to sum up something and give some reference to those young people who are coming to Beijing or looking forward to working hard in Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Of course, these are just what I have seen and heard personally, and they are not comprehensive.
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I came to Beijing very early, settled in Beijing, and my relatives and friends stayed in Beijing.
? This is very early, about 20 years ago or earlier. There are several examples around:
? My cousin's parents-in-law came to Beijing about 20 years ago, starting with selling wonton stalls, then selling building materials and finally opening a factory. They bought a house in Beijing and settled down. After the business was finished, they came to Beijing with their relatives. Now their relatives have bought a villa.
? When my cousin married her husband, her in-laws bought a four-bedroom apartment in their hometown. Last year, my cousin sold 900 thousand, and now she lives in Beijing with peace of mind. Now she drives and doesn't have to pay the mortgage. Some time ago, my cousin resigned and concentrated on taking care of the children at home. Compared with those who have struggled in Beijing for many years and still can't afford to buy a house, she is really happy.
? My colleague's in-laws also came to Beijing more than 20 years ago. What they did before is not clear. They did basement rental business two years ago, but they were not allowed to do it after the rectification in Beijing last year. Now they are retired at home with their grandchildren. The old couple bought four suites in Beijing, one for their two sons. Because my son bought a house early, the monthly mortgage is more than 4,000 yuan, which is much easier than the current mortgage of 1000.
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I came to Beijing early, and I struggled to settle down in Beijing.
? Sister Lan, 1982 came to Beijing in 2008 and has been circling in the real estate sales and leasing circle. During this period, she took care of the children full-time for three years. She saved enough money to buy a house during her work. Now she has a one-bedroom apartment in the urban area and two small-sized apartments around Beijing, with a car of 654.38+ 10,000 yuan.
? In the eyes of others, she is very successful, and many people envy her. Sometimes she regrets coming to Beijing. She said that when I woke up, I thought about how much mortgage I had to pay and how much my children's interest classes had to pay. I was always reluctant to spend money on myself. Now I'm almost 40, and sometimes I really want to sell my house and live comfortably in my hometown.
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I have been in Beijing for many years and will go back to my hometown in the future.
? Sister Amy, born after 70, Dink, a project sales manager, has a considerable income. I have been in Beijing for nearly 20 years, and my husband and I both went to college in Beijing. I have been working in Beijing since graduation. I plan to go back to my hometown in the future. When will I come back? At present, I am not in the plan, so I didn't buy a house. So I got into the habit of buying at buy buy. I have moved many times in this decade, and nothing stops once. At present, my husband has returned to his hometown to start a business and is living a delicate petty bourgeoisie life in Beijing. I have time to learn flower arrangement and take part in some training to improve myself.
? Sister Chen, aged 70, is the manager of an intermediary company with an annual income of1-20,000. She has a house in Beijing and a car in Lincoln. It is directly proportional to the income, and there is no rest time. Moreover, because buying a house in Beijing can't affect the children's schooling, now her husband is taking the children back to his hometown, and she is working hard in Beijing alone, so she can reunite with her husband and children in Beijing on holidays.
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After staying in Beijing for a while, I have already returned to my hometown, and I am still struggling whether to go back.
? After staying in Beijing for two years, all five people I know have left Beijing, some have just returned from internship, some have been unable to find suitable jobs for a year or two, and some have returned because of their boyfriends. I believe many people in the north have lost their dreams.
? Of course, there are still more people who bite the bullet and stick to their dream of drifting north, and can't get rid of the problem of going and staying.
? Li, married in 1987, used to teach in his hometown. His salary was not high, but his hometown expenses were not high and his life was very comfortable. Later, her husband was uneasy about the status quo, and she came to Beijing with her three-year-old son and mother. Now Li is an administrator with a monthly salary of 4,500 yuan, her husband is a warehouse manager with a monthly salary of 5,000-6,000 yuan, and her mother takes care of the children. Li sometimes feels confused. She earns no more here than at home and spends a lot of money. But her husband doesn't want to go back, so she can only work hard.
? Feng, 9 1 year, sales. After saving money for several years, the old people at home spent all their money for a disease and started over. Their income is not bad. They plan to save enough money to go back to the provincial capital to buy a house and settle down, but their sales work is unstable and they don't know when to go back.
? Actually, I am one of them myself. I'm wondering if I should go back. I don't want to go back I don't feel good about not going back, but relatively speaking, there are more opportunities in Beijing than in China.
These are just some people and things I have heard personally. Everyone has his own story, and each story has different ups and downs, and only he can understand the taste.
? In a word, no matter what the result is, it comes from the career you choose and from your own efforts!
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