16 years, house prices in various places reached their peak. Of course, a large part of this is attributed to the real estate speculators, and house prices naturally rose. Later, in order to regulate housing prices, the state began to implement the purchase restriction policy in various cities, but there were policies in the top and countermeasures in the bottom. Therefore, in order to buy an extra suite, some families start a fake divorce and finally buy an extra suite, but everything has two sides.
In fact, I am very opposed to the practice of fake divorce and then buying an extra suite, but in this materialistic society, as long as we can achieve our goal, we can do whatever it takes.
A popular saying: don't test human nature, human nature can't stand the test.
Many times, we believe too much in our position in each other's hearts, but it's all our own ideas. We didn't know how stupid our original decision was until the reality hit our faces one day.
The story to be shared today comes from a reader named Jiao Jiao.
"My nickname is Jiao Jiao, born after 90. After graduating from college, I didn't work in related majors, so I chose the sales industry in order to earn money.
At that time, WeChat was very popular, and later I met my husband, who was five years older than me. He was an engineer (then a construction worker) working in a state-owned enterprise.
We all grew up in the same city, but his project is in another city. During my love with him, he gave me complete security. At that time, the distance between us was not very far. Many times when I was in a bad mood, he would skip work and come to see me. On several occasions, he was discovered by superior leaders.
We never had an emotional crisis during our love. We have been married for less than two years, and now we have a daughter over 4 years old.
This year is the sixth year of our marriage, and the vigorous love has returned to the dullness of marriage.
When he was pregnant, he applied to the company to return to the local project. At that time, he was already an engineer, so he didn't have to go to the construction site often. He will refuse all social activities to accompany me at home, and never smoke at home when he is pregnant.
However, after giving birth to the child, he was transferred to work in other places. He didn't want to go, but the leader promised him that he could apply after finishing this project, but it took more than three years to go.
Last year, he was finally transferred back. Originally, it was a very happy thing, but our feelings were estranged.
Every time I want to have a serious chat with him, he always gives me a perfunctory reply.
He won't help with housework after coming home from work, just playing with his mobile phone;
I was sick and said I had to work overtime, so I couldn't take me to the hospital.
……
Maybe this is marriage!
At that time, both of them had good incomes, thinking that the bank interest rate was too low, and finally thinking about not buying a suite. Because of our city's purchase restriction policy at that time, we had to divorce and then remarry.
The plan is wonderful, but the reality is cruel.
I lived in fear every day during that time, but it was useless in the end. He met Xiaohui from the Internet.
He devoted his passion for me to Xiaohui wholeheartedly. Because there is no marriage certificate, it means that I have nothing to do with him, and he has never taken care of my feelings.
But I really can't help it. If it starts, it will only make him more and more disgusted, and this fake divorce will eventually become a real divorce. I can only choose to be patient and treat him better than before. I hope he can return to the prodigal son.
Later, when I read their chat records, I found that he was not incapable of sweet talk or romance, but he didn't want to tell me to do it for me.
Originally, I thought he still loved me, his daughter and this family, but all this has always been my idea and self-deception.
He did it for small favors, and finally our fake divorce became a real divorce. "
In fact, fake divorce does not exist, because your marital status has changed in the legal sense, and your relations will not be protected by law.
I think it's really stupid for two people to do this, and I also see that two people are not responsible for their marriage. After all, in their hearts, the house is much more important than this marriage. As the saying goes, everyone has his own interests, so it is a gamble. No matter what the final result is, the relationship between two people will definitely be affected. If it is lighter, it will eventually remarry normally. If it is more serious, it will be like a small favor to readers.
You agreed on a "fake divorce", but you received a divorce certificate issued by the Civil Affairs Bureau.
If you are a person who is responsible for yourself, your marriage and your family, you won't bet on your marriage at all. Because in your heart, marriage is the most precious thing in the world.
Especially for readers like Xiaohui, the relationship between the two people was already problematic before the "fake divorce" appeared. Maybe all this is his ex-husband's plan, of course, I'm just guessing.
Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.