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Hello, is it appropriate to send a ring on a date with your girlfriend?

Rings are usually given when engaged or married, because rings on different fingers have different meanings. If you really want to give a ring, it should also be a period of stable emotional development, so it is meaningful to buy a couple ring together. If the contact time is not long, or if you just want to buy a female ring for your girlfriend, it is better to send a necklace or bracelet.

What is the experience of having a boyfriend who can only say good morning and good night? We have been together for two years, and maybe the passion we just got together is over. I really think we chose not to feel in love. He's an intern this semester, and I'm in school, in a long-distance relationship, and I haven't called the video. Just say good morning and good night on WeChat every day, there is nothing to say. I'm just obsessed with pictures. He even forgot my birthday. He never gives me a gift (not material) on the anniversary, hoping for a little surprise. I often send it to him. I don't know if it has entered a dull period.

Sister Lizi commented that your's relationship has not entered a dull period, but an embarrassing period, that is to say, it has reached an embarrassing stage of tasteless food and a pity to abandon it. When lovers don't even have a chat but fight, it is better to break up than one person who speaks first and leaves first. I can see that you are more involved in this relationship, and it is estimated that your boyfriend will leave first.

Ask if there is any opposite sex who is ready to get married? If so, are there many such people? I am heterosexual. My ex-girlfriend and I both yearn for Dink, but because of personality problems, she can't tolerate me and wants to break up with me. After trying to save the fruit, she had no choice but to break up. After breaking up, I couldn't let go of her and couldn't bear to part with her. After many exchanges, she mentioned formal marriage to me. If you accept it, you can stay together. Because of some things, she hates sex and excessive physical contact. Before talking to me, she said that she had lived les's life for three years. According to my observation, she may be bisexual. I have normal sexual needs. I put forward some conditions for marriage with her. Generally speaking, I don't interfere in the free life of both parties. I meet each other every week, come to my house every week, and then give her gifts like a normal husband during the Chinese New Year holiday. The two sides have friends' parties, family days and dinners, and they can also agree to be present in advance, which shows that the husband and wife have a harmonious relationship.

You can even meet each other's physical needs at the right time (this is completely different from what I know about formal marriage), so that you can get married formally in sexual life. Of course, you can't set a fixed time and frequency.

She yearns for freedom and can't imagine the bondage of a normal marriage. Worried about the uncertainty of the future, it also requires that both sides can be emotionally derailed or even physically derailed in the future, and the two sides will not interfere with each other. Even after a few years, tired of formal marriage, you can divorce at any time. It is also possible that because of time, the two sides will become relatives and will not deliberately divorce. But no one knows. After divorce, the property can be divided into four accounts, such as the house, without the need for half-and-half division as stipulated by law. And I want to marry her, I want to marry a normal wife, and there must be no less bride price weddings. According to our previous chat, her bride price is 288,000 yuan, and the wedding room is my existing old house (demolition is possible in the next five years, and the current market value is about 6.5438+0 million yuan). As far as I know, everyone's formal marriage is asexual and simple, with their own AA. A situation like mine must be very, very special I love her very much and want to be with her. I even hope that as time goes by, she will fall in love with me again. Is it inappropriate for me to formally marry her with such a purpose? I am an authoritative fan. I hope you can help me analyze it.

Sister Lizi accurately commented that marriage in your is not a formal marriage, but an open marriage. Because you asked your girlfriend to get back together, she put forward such harsh conditions, both bride price and marriage room, both freedom and material, which is really a bit excessive. If you can't extricate yourself just because of love, you can try this open marriage, but if you want a bisexual girl to fall in love with you after marriage, you'd better stop dreaming.

Can a 30-year-old girl still meet pure love? Experienced two feelings ~ graduated from master's degree at the age of 26. The first time I talked to a boy who is three years older, because the other party has a strong offensive and people around him, so I talked about a tangled love for nearly two years, involving personality, family and other reasons, and finally ended up breaking up ... The next year was a year of self-liberation, starting to travel, fitness, learning music to enrich myself ... I talked about a two-month love, exhausted physically and mentally. In these two months, I took that boy as my marriage partner and was very devoted. He wants to confirm the relationship, and he has been chatting with me frequently, thinking that they are the only ones. Because he found the ambiguous information sent by his little nurse at work, there was a gap. He didn't deal with it face to face. He just verbally said that he had deleted his friends, but he still had a heart of stone ... and the last straw. He went to his female colleague for a pedicure. But he lied to me about staying at home ~ I was afraid of cheating for 0 times and countless times ~ His promise didn't work ~ I didn't know about his relationship with his female colleague … He asked me to get back together, and I refused. I think the problem has not been solved, and there is no way to be together again … it is really not easy to want simple and pure feelings ~

Sister Lizi commented that women, whether they are 30 years old or 18 years old, don't have many opportunities to meet love. After all, love is a rare thing, and most people have only heard of it and never really seen it. What ordinary people call love is actually a combination of lust and love, and it has reached the sacred height of not loving or not loving. As for you, you only talked about love twice at the age of 30, and you began to doubt life. It should be said that you have too little emotional experience and don't know enough about men. Go straight ahead and people will meet you sooner or later.

I asked my boyfriend that it was careless to add the ambiguous object back. Should I believe it? My boyfriend recently resented me looking at his mobile phone. He fell asleep the other day, and my cell phone kept ringing. Then he took it away. Afterwards, he knew that I was sad. He explained to me that he was very uncomfortable when he saw that I had been rummaging through his mobile phone. Then he clicked on WeChat to show me his chat box (because we had a quarrel with a school girl before) and watched him chat with other girls, which reassured me. However, the dog blood thing came. When I saw a girl who didn't comment, I suddenly had a brainwave. It feels like a year ago, when we first got together, he talked about the micro-signal of S ambiguous objects! Actually, I don't know if I clicked in. I mean, that's the guy, right? He didn't say yes ... so that he accidentally added this person back, because he has two high school girls with the same name and different surnames, and he is also a good friend and a couple's head. Then the ambiguous girl lied to him in the verification information that it was another girl, and then her boyfriend agreed to add friends. Now I find this is wrong. But I really can't believe he said that. He praised this ambiguous object and clicked on another one accurately. The record of the chat box is also empty. Only that girl said that she was in a bad mood the other day and my boyfriend didn't return. I later chose to believe him, but I hoped that he would call the girl and ask her clearly, but he said he didn't agree at four in the morning and only sent a message to ask her. I said I changed your mobile phone password and gave it back to him when he woke up the next day. He thinks I've gone too far. The final result is that the girl has not replied to him until now. I said today that if I called the girl, she wouldn't, so she had to call. He was afraid that I would say something radical ... because that girl just told my male ticket that she was too dry or something, and my male ticket joked that she would help him solve it. Anyway, in my opinion, I was just talking about S at that time, and now I want to scold that girl, but the male ticket doesn't agree. Should I believe what he said? .

Sister Lizi comments on your boyfriend and female classmate. Why did you scold that female classmate? What's the difference between this and those husbands who cheat, don't want to divorce and can't control men, and go to the streets to hit mistresses with big breasts? After all, you women are bullies, and you can bully women without men. You ah! Dump love rat if you can. Forget it if you can't.