In today's society, there are many divorce phenomena, which make the originally happy family finally fall apart. Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, the phenomenon of divorce is normal, but if you put it on yourself, sadness is inevitable. Especially after having children, their physical and mental health will be seriously affected. Therefore, how to manage the relationship between husband and wife is particularly important.
A happy marriage needs the joint efforts of both men and women to maintain it. If the relationship between husband and wife is to be in a stable state for a long time, it is necessary to adjust the state of life in daily life and promote the intimate relationship between the two. Remember the vows we made when we got married? When there is a contradiction, put yourself in the other person's shoes, communicate more and tolerate each other more, and the relationship between husband and wife will become more and more harmonious.
However, how to manage a good relationship between husband and wife? Next, happiness compass emotional experts will talk about some skills of managing a good relationship between husband and wife.
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Second, the reasons for divorce
Many couples complain habitually in marriage. After everyone walked into the marriage hall hand in hand, they lived a normal life of daily necessities, and the good times of your love were gradually erased after a long time.
Easy to think highly of yourself. Since ancient times, men have always been "male masters outside, female masters inside". Men who earn money outside to support their families are particularly prone to feel superior in front of their wives. Although the husband pays more for this family, he is often recognized by his wife. Ignoring her husband's contribution for a long time will make her dissatisfied with her husband, and it is also prone to contradictions and disputes, which is also a very unfavorable factor for managing marriage.
Lack of respect for the husband. In traditional society, men are the pillar of the family, the head of the family, and their words don't count. After a long time, you will become "self-centered" and you will lack respect for your husband. As a result, many things in my family are decided by myself, and I never ask my husband's opinion. Outside, I am also ready for my husband, lingering and not giving him face. The wife's practice actually hurts her husband's heart and will also have an impact on marriage.
Many wives face their husbands' bad habits. Many men have bad living habits. When they are in love, they will pretend to be restrained. After marriage, it will be completely exposed and even worse. For example, men who smoke and drink and don't pay attention to hygiene can't be tolerated by these wives. These bad habits, if men can't change or change ineffectively, can easily lead to the end of your marriage.
Third, we should understand the art of management and influence each other to make changes.
A good family is often because two people in marriage know how to learn from each other. If you want to change each other, start by changing yourself. The reason why a person goes out to have sex is often because there is nothing to do at home. Therefore, if a man cheats, the wife often has certain responsibilities. Because the wife did not fulfill the responsibility of "taking care of her husband and educating her children". In other words, in marriage, the wife still has to manage her husband to some extent. Of course, this kind of management is not demanding, but you should understand the art of management. Therefore, it is an eternal truth that a happy family often has a good wife. For example, if you take care of the children, you can get a piece of the action. You can buy clothes and cook for your children yourself, but the responsibility of educating your children can be left to your husband. There is an old saying in Ceng Yun: "If you don't teach, it's your father's fault." Why don't you take this opportunity to control your husband, let him bear certain family responsibilities, and reduce the chances of being away in his spare time?
Fourth, learn to find things that are of common interest to your husband.
A family must have a relaxation point. This relaxation point is that you can do something happy with each other together. For example, you both like to travel, so you can choose to travel together on holidays. Through these things, your husband can feel your attention to this family and enhance his feelings. Marriage is in crisis, but it's not without turning points. As long as you try your best to save it, this family can still live well. Many men don't understand when they are young. In fact, the most important thing in this life is to choose to be with the right person.
Fifth, let San Xiao quit your marriage with wisdom and generosity.
Sixth, we should manage ourselves well and take him with us.
It is said that years are quiet and good. In fact, years are ruthless and make people old, but years have never defeated beauty. As a woman, you should know how to discover the beauty in life and nature, and at the same time, you should make your mind beautiful. When you have a beautiful mind, you will attract many beautiful things and make your life better. In fact, as a member of the family, men are often led by the nose. The key is how to shake the rope. In a family, if you want to live a colorful life, you need a woman who is good at business. If you want to save your marriage, you must know how to live with your heart and make some changes with your heart, so that you can influence each other and drive each other to make your family better. If a family has love and warmth, the crisis of the whole family can also be lifted. Because love can tolerate all misfortunes!
Happy Compass Emotional Expert's Conclusion:
Happy families have one thing in common: both husband and wife can take a step back and broaden their horizons. Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. Either men drink, gamble or have lust, or women are more outspoken than eating and dressing. So marriage is purgatory, which is full of everyone's shortcomings. If a tolerant heart is not cultivated, marriage is often unsustainable.
A marriage really can't go on quickly, often because both sides have no will to save it and deliberately destroy the harmonious atmosphere.
In addition, all contradictions may be repaired.
In marriage, the difficulties we face may not be as bad as we think. As long as we can put down our posture, tolerate and understand each other, and don't force our partner to listen to their own opinions, so that the other party can feel the sincerity you want to save, this marriage can still be restored to its original appearance with your efforts.
Of course, there is one more thing we need to understand.
Repairing the marriage itself is a difficult thing, because the husband and wife have already had differences of opinion. This situation is like hostility, and it is more difficult to re-establish intimacy than strangers.
So, you should be mentally prepared. Saving your marriage may require you to spend more time and energy than you can imagine.
If you just don't want a divorce, it's worth the effort, but there will be many things you need to insist on.