Psychological counseling is that psychological counselors use scientific psychological knowledge and technical theory to help people with psychological confusion eliminate symptoms, get rid of pain and return to normal life, work and study.
As a psychological counselor, sometimes people ask, can you read my thoughts? You know what I'm thinking? In fact, this is a misinterpretation of psychological counselors. Psychological counseling is science, not fortune-telling. You never know what the other person is thinking.
Scientific psychological consultation is based on communication with visitors, understanding each other's symptoms, experiences and the formation of some cognition, analyzing how the symptoms of visitors are formed, explaining the principle of attack and the causes of pain, and giving operable methods and steps. But this is different from mind reading.
Some people with psychological problems don't want to go to a counselor for help, just because they are worried that the counselor will know what they call "details", which is a misunderstanding of psychological counseling.
Counselors can't read minds. The word mind-reading is easy to mislead people, thinking that one can read other people's inner thoughts without any communication. As an ordinary person, no consultant can do this.
The work of psychological counselors is mainly to help visitors solve their psychological problems and difficulties by talking with them and agreeing on their counseling goals.
In the process of talking with visitors, psychological counselors listen carefully to the verbal information of visitors with their keen perception, sensibility and good conversation skills, and at the same time capture various non-verbal information except words through observation. In addition, we need to use our own professional theory to help them better understand why visitors have psychological problems at a certain stage, even mental illness. So as to provide more effective help.
I also took an examination of a psychological counselor. When I was in the first class of a psychological counselor, the teacher said that I was often asked: Don't you study psychology? You know what I'm thinking? Every time someone asks me this question, the teacher will calmly say that I don't know. Others asked: Can anyone read minds? The teacher said: there may be, but there is no scientific research. Others then asked: then I watch XXX on TV, or XXX abroad, or XXX in ancient times, and I can read minds. Why not? The teacher will say: I can't learn this thing today. It may all depend on guessing. The only way to increase the probability of guessing is through experience …
Metaphysical refers to the Tao, while physical refers to the device. From Tao to use, it can be summarized as the original body and then transformed into Tao.
For example, a person has a high demand for downwards. What does this usage mean? It shows that this person is selfish, but in fact he is selfish, so others must follow him, and his behavior is exclusive.
This is the style of Taoism, and then look at other uses of Taoism.
What will be his attitude towards his peers? Certainly not this or that, no one can take it seriously, because he is self-centered, but he is not qualified to ask for it himself, so this is his inevitable attitude;
What about the superior? Absolute obedience! This is a bit circuitous. Because self-centered people must be selfish, the bottom line of selfishness is to protect themselves from any harm, which may be a small loss in the eyes of others. Therefore, people who have the ability to hurt themselves must obey, so as to ensure their own safety.
These three different forms of expression are determined by the same thing encountering different situations.
So the counselor may observe some of your behaviors, and it will be clear how you will deal with him in other cases.
Of course, not all consultants have this ability.
Counselors don't read minds, but reason about your inner activities according to your actions.
People's language, expressions, actions and so on are all expressing people's ideological activities. Unless you are professionally trained, people's behavior and movements must be controlled by the brain's thoughts at this time.
Psychological counselors have more psychological knowledge, knowing what kind of behavior is defensive, what kind of behavior is guilty, and so on. This will make it easier for them to judge your psychological activities at this time, and add your understanding of your information to complete your so-called "mind reading" behavior.
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