Shout it out ten years ago? My father is Li Gang? Now that he is out of prison, he has become like this.
This sentence comes from Li. His life used to be smooth sailing, but on the night of 20 10, 10, Li drunk and drove two girls several meters away while passing through Hebei University, causing one death and one serious injury, which caused great disaster.
When he was caught by the police, he didn't feel guilty at all, but said confidently: Do you know who my father is? My father is Li Gang. You can't sue him. ?
At that time, I was searching for this Li Gang on the Internet. Who was it? Once the matter was verified by fermentation, it was learned that Li Gang was the local deputy director.
However, these words are useless before the law. After learning about this, Li Gang said in an interview with a TV station that Li did such an illegal thing, which caused serious harm to the victims and brought bad public opinion influence. He deeply regrets this and said that he will handle it according to law and will never be partial.
Because Li Gang and Li are sincere in their attitude of admitting their mistakes, they reached an understanding through consultation with the families of the two victims. They were still sentenced to six years in prison and paid hundreds of thousands of dollars in compensation. Li Gang was also dismissed, ran away from home and was never heard from again.
Now that Li has been released from prison, at the age of 32, he is deeply aware of his serious mistakes. But his father refused to see him. Facing an interview with reporters, he said: I just want to get together with my family, but I haven't heard from my father so far. ?
My father is Li Gang? Behind it is the failed education of parents.
Li thought that because of his family background, he knew that he couldn't drive after drinking, but he didn't feel guilty after hitting someone, and his words were wild.
According to various reports, due to the unprincipled doting of his parents, Li lived a luxurious and luxurious life since childhood, which led to a disaster for Li and ruined his happy and carefree life.
Spoiling will only have a negative impact on children's growth
There are many ways for parents to express their love. Unprincipled doting can not only make children grow up healthily, but also pay a heavy price.
1) selfish and arrogant
Now most families are only children, so they will treat their children as treasures in their hands and leave the best to them, even if they make mistakes. This behavior of parents for a long time will make children become arrogant. Coupled with the accumulation of money and power, it is easy to form an arrogant character, selfish, regardless of the feelings of others.
2) Poor independence and strong dependence
Many parents feel extremely distressed when they see their children suffering a little, and they will worry too much about and protect their children's extreme cold, food, clothing and personal safety. But I don't know that excessive love and excessive protection will make children lose their ability to adapt to society.
Educate children correctly, and there won't be a second one? Where's Li?
1) Molding a correct outlook on life and values
Parents should instill a correct outlook on life and values in their children from an early age, and don't overemphasize material and power, so that children can know that everything needs to be obtained by their own efforts and hands, and there is no shortcut.
2) Appropriate hardship
Many families have sex with their children? Spoil? Raising mode, but parents can't stay with their children all their lives to provide convenience for him. Therefore, parents should not only provide good conditions for their children's growth, but also learn to let go, cultivate their children's ability to live independently in every bit of life, and let them exercise and grow up in big waves.
The child is three years old, and you need him to help you carry things when you go to the street.
When a child is five years old, he must learn to clean his room.
Children's primary school, the rough work and heavy work at home can be properly shared;
When children go to middle school, they should manage fixed living expenses;
Through the educational case of Li's failure, we should arouse parents' profound educational reflection. Parents can't be windbreaks for life, and it's harmful to spoil their children too much.