There is such a friend in my circle of friends who often eats, drinks and enjoys himself. He is very beautiful, very beautiful, and his life is very comfortable. I once commented: I envy your life. Then she replied: Actually, I envy your life more.
There is another friend in my circle of friends who often sends some negative, negative, complaining and sad messages. Life is very depressing. I once commented: I feel sorry for your life. Then she replied: Actually, I am more sympathetic to your life.
I began to wonder whether it was my judgment or my friend. Until one day I sent a circle of friends, tangled for a long time, and finally blocked most people and sent it. From the moment I posted it, I suddenly understood something.
In fact, the circle of friends is good, and real life is good. When you see a person's life glamorous, it is actually his deliberate choice, and he chose to let you see glamorous. And when you see a person's life is fragile, it is also his choice, and he is more willing to let you see fragility. Of course, there are also many glamorous and fragile things that are deliberately created.
But I prefer the first way. I prefer to send something positive in my circle of friends, express my bright side to everyone, complain occasionally and feel sad, but it may block everyone. I prefer to give you the impression that you are a sunny and energetic person. Although many times it's just my own opinion, it's enough, and with more emphasis, I naturally become the person I want.
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One night I passed a small vendor, and a familiar employee in the production workshop stopped me. I sat down, ordered a plate of fried noodles and a bottle of beer, and chatted with him. I am interested in his spare time. What does he do after work? He said that he didn't have any special hobbies. He drank a bottle of beer occasionally, didn't smoke or gamble, and his biggest hobby was watching videos or news online. I said, how can you eat at the stall after work today? He replied: Today's work is very hard, so I plan to improve my food and drink a bottle of wine. Say that finish beautiful drink a mouthful of wine.
A simple answer, but deeply shocked me. A plate of fried noodles and a bottle of beer can make him feel that his food has improved, and there may be heroism in spending money today. His face was full of happiness when his little wish was satisfied. He showed me sunshine and self-confidence, which is a very bright side. I feel full of happiness at the moment: Come, let's drink!
And when I was in middle school, I was far from home, and a distant relative near the school invited me to his house for dinner. After repeated invitations, I refused and went. There is no courtyard wall in his house. The fence is tied with a fence. There are some vegetables in the yard, and a cow is tied in the corner of the yard. The house has three adobe houses, which are crumbling. I call her cousin. My uncle is ill and can't work. My cousin is my superior, and there is a cousin at home. The food served to me is jiaozi, which contains a lot of fat. I don't eat much, but I can feel that they have been showing me the best side.
Maybe it really has something to do with these. Although I am embarrassed, I am modest, full of sunshine and self-confidence. I believe life will be good, so life will be really good. Later, relatives moved to Beijing, and the two children were particularly promising!
Yes, whose life is not filthy? Whose life can be smooth sailing? It's just that we need to record the moments that touch us and the expressions that make us sunny and energetic.
Finally, send some of my favorite lyrics:
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Life is not just now.
There are poems and distant places.
You came into this world with your bare hands.
Desperate to find Na Pianhai.
There is also a song "Once You" that follows the melody and is very emotional.
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I once dreamed of taking my sword to the world.
Take a look at the prosperity of the world
Young hearts are always frivolous.
Now you feel at home all over the world.
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I hope that many years later, after I get up, I will open the window and smell the birds and flowers. In the afternoon yard, the sun drops on the ground, a table, a chair, a pot, a cup, a piece of paper and a pen. I looked up, full of confidence and sunshine, smiling and looking into the distance, with my family behind me.
Even if you are living a sweaty life now, show your bright side.