Shanghai marriage managers earn millions a year. What do you think of this profession?

My view of this profession, apart from envy, is that some people do pay a lot of IQ taxes. The emergence of the profession of marriage manager is because the divorce rate is very high now, and many people have no ability to save their marriage and can only turn to outsiders for help. But the marriage is warm and cold, how can outsiders know, and how can marriage managers help people?

First, the marriage manager's annual salary is as high as one million, making money is very easy. Nowadays, with the development of society, many new occupations have emerged, which are different from the previous occupations. Because people don't know much about them, these new occupations provide all kinds of services, but the prices are very expensive. Marriage managers take advantage of people's fear of marriage breakdown and make a lot of money. In fact, their help to marriage is very limited, only temporarily alleviating the psychological pressure of the parties and making them feel hope.

Second, marriage needs careful management and does not need the help of outsiders. People will inevitably encounter poor communication in their daily marriage life, or when two people have different ideas and feel that marriage cannot continue. In fact, people's understanding of marriage has a lot to do with their personal living environment. Everyone grew up in different environments, and naturally they have different understandings of marriage. Therefore, both husband and wife will inevitably have contradictions. But if they manage their marriage with heart, they will find their own problems and improve their marital status. This kind of marriage manager is an IQ tax. Many people spend a lot of money, but the effect still depends on themselves.

Third, the field of emotional counseling is too chaotic, and many people go to the hospital because they are sick. The field of emotional counseling is very chaotic. There are all kinds of training courses that teach people to fall in love, all kinds of love mentors that teach people to save money, and people like marriage managers who earn millions a year exist. In fact, these people just take advantage of people's psychology of going to the hospital because of illness. Many people don't want to face and solve problems when their marriage feelings break down, but choose to escape and seek help from others. Marriage is different from other ways of cooperation and requires the efforts of the parties themselves. Even if someone helps, it's up to you in the end.

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