Angie and Anxin were really close when they were children. When Angie got married, he was prepared with peace of mind. An Xin took the initiative to make suggestions for Anjie's marriage, and everything was from the perspective of sincere consideration for Anjie. After Anjie gets married, she should receive guests and prepare meals in advance, which is also prepared by Anxin for Anjie. This elder sister is as careful as her mother. After that, An Xin's family went south and went to Montenegro Island. It was also Anjie's family who took care of each other for many years. Two sisters help each other. This brotherhood really envies others.
But I don't know if you have noticed that Angie and Anxin seem to be less intimate after they get older, and even have a tendency to go further and further. An Xin and Ouyang Yi come to visit Anjie's house. An Jie looked down on Jiang Defu for a while, and then looked down on the elegant appearance of his sister An Xin on the roof when she revisited her old haunt. In a word, Angie and Anxin, after getting old, don't feel as close as they did when they were young. On the contrary, Angie is getting closer to her brother and sister-in-law Jiang Dehua! What is the reason?
There is an old saying in China that "marry a dog to keep it, marry a chicken to keep it". This is not an old concept, but to some extent, it shows that the natural environment makes people, that is, those who are close to ink are black. Angie married Jiang Defu, from Jiang Defu to Jiang Dehua, and then to the next-door neighbors around her. Most of them are simple people with no culture and art. Angie didn't like them at first, but gradually accepted and discovered the loveliness of these people around her. Angie endangered the people around her with her habits of civilized behavior, and this simple person is also endangering Angie.
So Jiang Dehua loves cleanliness more and more, so Angie sometimes swears and sometimes wipes the fuel injector with her sleeve, which is actually the result of mutual influence. After getting old, Anjie lost the charm of bourgeois Miss Jiao and became a simple and ordinary old woman. At this time, she is more pragmatic, more realistic and prefers simple gas field.
As for my sister An Xin, although she has lived in Heishan Island for more than ten years because of her husband Ouyang Yi, it is her husband Ouyang Yi who accompanies her the most. Anxin and her husband Ouyang Yi are the same kind of people. Although the standard in Montenegro is difficult, it will still take pleasure in suffering and keep some habits and preferences in the past. Later, after he returned from his conviction, he also provided many past habits to his family.
Therefore, An Xin, an old man you met, or a scholar who loves love affair, lyricism and elegance, is well dressed, modest and polite, but An Jie is getting farther and farther away from his young self, and he doesn't like his sister An Xin! Close contact with Jiang Dehua! In fact, to be precise, Angie and Anxin are not getting farther and farther, but their lifestyles are getting different!
There is an old saying: when you get married, you are like a mother, but when you settle down, you are like a mother. An Xin's knowledge is better than Anji's and his work is more decent than Anji's. However, this is not the two sisters themselves, but the men they married: Ouyang Yi and Jiang Defu. Peace of mind married Ouyang Yi because of love. She is almost the same as her family, and her knowledge and speech are almost the same. Before Ouyang Yi was down and out, An Xin was elegant and beautiful.
However, with Ouyang Yi down and out, An Xin quit her job in the city and followed her husband to the island. An intellectual woman became a noodle maker? An Xin's life situation plummeted.
On the other hand, Anjie has got rid of the fetters of family completely since she married Jiang Defu. From a girl who was laughed at in the factory to a lady, she was respected everywhere. The estrangement between the two sisters is happening quietly.
Why did Angie deliberately alienate An Xin? The estrangement between the two sisters did not happen overnight. In fact, it gradually became obvious after moving to the island with peace of mind. An Xin knows her own situation and deliberately doesn't contact Miss Jie, but An Jie is really worried that what happened to Ouyang Yi will affect Jiang Defu. Angie is selfish at heart
An Jie put An Xin in charge of confinement, and An Xin cooked and cleaned at home by herself. As a result, Anjie said, "Servants of big families talk like this."
An Xin heard it outside the door. In the evening, An Xin accompanied Anjie to rest. Angie kept asking Anxin how she spent these years. An Xin bowed her head with a wry smile and didn't want to say anything more. An Jie accused her sister: "How have you changed? I don't like this kind of resignation. "
An Xin lived in Anjie's house for only a month, but stabbed her several times. Anxin's situation is clear at a glance. He has never disturbed Jiang Defu. But Angie always regards her as a condescending person, while her compatriots and sisters insist on showing superiority, which is not as honest as Dehua's peace of mind.
An Jie always had a sense of superiority in front of An Xin, but in Ouyang Yi's later years, An Xin returned to Xiaohei Island. An Jie looked at a group of people holding colorful flags in front of him and shouted, "Welcome to Teacher Ouyang, welcome to Teacher An!" " "
Anjie was jealous at that time, because both An Xin and Ouyang Yi were respected to an unexpected extent. Jiang Defu can't give her this kind of cultural respect.
An Jie and An Xin are both old, and An Xin chooses to return to city life. Angie and Jiang Defu went on a trip and stayed at their sister's house for one night. Anjie finds fault in the house: the room is small, the living room is small and the toilet is small. An Xin is more accomplished than An Jie, so she knows what people think of her, but she never cares or complains.
Seven years later, I watched "Parents' Love" and really understood the feelings of the two sisters. Different circumstances, different husbands, different experiences ... have separated them. The sisterhood gradually faded, and Anjie, who only cares about the family, thought from his bones that his marriage took advantage of the family.
Although she is happy, she no longer needs the help of her family. Brothers and sisters are relatives who are remembered only occasionally. An Jie's children are not familiar with their families, and the relationship between Jiang Jia and An Jia has long been weak.
Angie was conceited from beginning to end. "Beautiful but not kind" is Jiang Defu's evaluation of her. Knowing how to follow the trend is her "advantage", and she values bread more in front of reality.
An Xin is not. Despite years of tempering, she left half her life and returned to the elegant girl whose mouth was full of smoke. I liked Anjie's sunny life seven years ago, but now I understand that all her beautiful looks are carried by someone.
An Xin, on the other hand, has always been "proud of poetry and books" and always respects and accompanies her husband in trouble. An Xin is like "fragrant bitter tea", and her calmness, generosity and modesty are worth learning.