Some people may answer that I disagree, but among all the families I have contacted, there are very few couples who divorce because of disagreement. Most people will continue to make do as long as they can talk, even if that part is for themselves and children.
But there is another kind of marriage, which is obviously in love, without infidelity, domestic violence and contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but it will never last long. What is the biggest feature of this marriage? Asexual? Like a hard piece of ice, even if you want to melt it slowly, only you will get cold in the end.
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An old classmate of mine has been with her husband for many years? Roommate? Relationship. I always thought they were a harmonious couple, but it was not until recently that I realized that she had been a victim of this asexual marriage.
She has been married to her husband for three years and has never had children. Men always say they are? Dink? Don't want children. She recently told me that after three years of marriage, her husband touched her only a handful of times, and the man was not Dink, but pure indifference. He is not interested in married life. The so-called dink family is actually a asexual marriage.
After three years of marriage, my husband will sleep with him perfunctory once a month. Although she also advised her husband to go to the hospital, she could not find the cause after all. She persisted in this asexual marriage for three years and finally made up her mind to divorce.
Married for 3 years, average monthly 1 time? They are also the best results of all asexual marriages I have ever seen? Break up peacefully.
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I remember seeing such a clip in the movie "If You Are the One": two people are dating, which is very suitable for each other, but the woman is right? That thing? Not interested, she asked, is that so interesting? ?
When a woman says this, the audience will smile. Obviously, this matter is of great interest to the audience. Just in the eyes of cold eyes? Sex? It is not so much a necessity of marriage as a scourge, which has already evolved into a psychological problem.
When this indifference between husband and wife has become a habit, it will inevitably bring trouble to both husband and wife. Both people should know how to reflect well and communicate well to see if there is any possibility of improvement in their relationship.
If there is no possibility of improvement, peace will be the best result of ending this asexual marriage!
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What about sex for normal couples in marriage? With what? Love? Is an indispensable key factor. Only in harmony with each other can the feelings between husband and wife be balanced physically and psychologically.
Asexual marriage will completely crush each other's fantasies about love after marriage. The terrible thing is not to destroy your present marriage, but to let that disappointment and laziness take root in your soul and grow quietly. Like a cage, unconsciously trapped in their own lives.