Think that emotional counseling is a "life-saving straw"
Luo Xiao couldn't get out after breaking up with her boyfriend, hoping to get back together with her boyfriend. Feeling depressed, she joined a group called "Breaking Up" on Douban. This breakup group was founded on August 27th, 20th/kloc-0th/9th, and the group leader showed it as "like a cat". The text description in the group is very emotional: "Breaking up is not to pay homage to unexpected encounters, but to save the upcoming losses."
"I entered this group and saw a" probability test to save my ex-boyfriend ". I did this test and then added the teacher's WeChat. " Luo Xiao told reporters. After adding WeChat, the emotional teacher sent the company's public welfare live broadcast to Luo Xiao and Luo Xiao for free consultation and analysis. "I have thought about it now, but anyone with a little love experience can analyze it, but it felt particularly reasonable at the time." "The most important thing is that I also consulted other institutions. Other institutions only say that the recovery probability is 80%. But what this family told me was' We are confident 100% can do it'. I caught this life-saving straw at that time. " Luo Xiao said.
Do the composite test first, then add WeChat.
According to the test screenshot sent by Luo Xiao, the reporter tried to scan the code to do the problem. In fact, the topic is very routine, such as: how long have we broken up? How did you feel about him when we broke up? Did the other party take the initiative to contact you after breaking up and so on. At the end of the questionnaire, the questioner is prompted to add "Like Cat Nine" WeChat, ask for the test results, and leave his own micro-signal. Perhaps, adding WeChat is the meaning of this test and the existence of this group. In the "breaking up" Douban group, there are many Luo Xiao who want to save their former netizens. "Help! Help analyze and analyze! " "Is there any chance in this situation?" "Although we have broken up, we still like him" ... The stories of asking for help and feeling are anxious and helpless. After these stories, an account named "Er Ru Cat" provided emotional analysis and prompted: Please add "Like Cat Nine" WeChat. As a group leader, Cats often post some experience posts, such as five ways to make ex-boyfriends miss you, how to flirt with ex-boyfriends, how to make men stop ignoring you, and how to keep men interested. Obviously, the audiences of these articles are all women. For example, the article How to Keep Men's Interest begins like this: "There are three kinds of women who can benefit from this article: they want to get back their ex-boyfriends. A man with a goal. I want to keep the man around me. " At the beginning of many articles, there will be a hint: "Before that, you can contact me to do a test on recovery probability".
"Tell me to read books, watch movies and improve myself."
On April 18, Luo Xiao paid 20,000 yuan with a credit card and bought a cat-like emotional recovery service. "Like Cat Nine," the teacher told her, "the difficulty lies in your mood." "According to your current mentality and situation, you can achieve your goal in no more than 70 days. It may take 90 days if the mood fluctuates greatly. If you are in a better mood than today, you don't need two months. " "Just calm down." Luo Xiao sent the reporter the class schedule for the first week. There are these courses: group communication "understanding the differences between men and women's thinking and emotions" and "stabilizing emotions without pressure"; Watch Intimacy and The Beautiful Legend of Hoh Xil (without this movie, it may be The Beautiful Legend of Sicily); Interpret his chat records and daily life; Self-analysis "where is my advantage" "analysis of reproductive value and emotional value" "I signed up for the course. At the beginning, I was disconnected, saying that he (ex-boyfriend) had a strong resistance to me and told me to read books, watch movies and improve myself. How stupid do you think I am to believe that they can help me save it in two months? " Luo Xiao told reporters. In addition to classes, "Like Cats" talked with her ex-boyfriend several times instead of Luo Xiao. "The effect is not good." Luo Xiao said. The schedule for the second week didn't arrive as scheduled. Luo Xiao began to suspect that he had been cheated, so he began to communicate with his emotional teacher. "He comforted me again, saying that the progress would be quick after one month. In our communication, he repeatedly promised that I could refund my money if I felt bad. " At the end of April, Luo Xiao WeChat reported "like a cat": "Because he told me that if I quit halfway, I can't ask for a refund according to the contract." At the same time, Luo Xiao called the police.
Ask for a refund, come to a deadlock
"It is not only the economic loss of 20,000 yuan, but more importantly, it has caused me a psychological burden and given me great hope of getting back together. Now that my predecessor has completely ignored me, my gap is even bigger and it is difficult to accept. " Luo Xiao said. Now her appeal is a refund. "I can pay according to his so-called consultation time, but he should give me the rest." The service between us only helped me (and my ex-boyfriend) talk briefly for four or five times, not more than ten hours of voice. "On May 29, the reporter contacted Changsha Rumao Education Consulting Co., Ltd. .. The person in charge of the company must have such a complaint. The person in charge told the reporter that the company is mainly engaged in emotional counseling services. So far, this is "the first time I have encountered such a complaint." The person in charge said that because of Luo Xiao's report and alarm, the company's official WeChat account and WeChat enterprise account have been banned, and the company's enterprise account has also been sealed up, which has had a great impact on the company. "She reported the case, which caused our company to be unable to operate during this time. To solve these things, first say refund. "Luo Xiao has the right to recover his 20000 yuan? Yi Xu, a lawyer of Hunan jinzhou area Law Firm, told the reporter that Changsha Rumao Education Consulting Co., Ltd. and Luo Xiao agreed that emotional counseling service can reach the state that Luo Xiao and her boyfriend are reconciled. The two sides expressed their true intentions and the agreement was legal. When the emotional consulting company fails to reach an agreement and Luo Xiao's ex-boyfriend ignores her, Luo Xiao has the right to ask the emotional consulting company to fulfill the agreement, or Luo Xiao has the right to terminate the contract and ask the emotional consulting company for a refund if the agreement cannot be reached. As for the person in charge of the cat company, Yi Xu said it was unreasonable. " Legally speaking, the company's refund is based on the failure to reach the contractual obligations agreed by both parties, not on the premise of Luo Xiao's elimination of influence. The company has no right to ask Luo Xiao to take the responsibility of eliminating the influence if Luo Xiao does not infringe the legal rights of the company. "Luo Xiao's story is not a case. The reporter searched for "emotional consultation" on Sina Black Cat, and there were 205 complaints. For example, on April 4, some netizens complained that they spent 4,280 yuan to purchase the recovery service of Shandong Chaohua Xixi Emotional Recovery Agency. " After paying the money, I only sent a circle of friends every day, without providing any substantive help. If you want to get in touch with your boyfriend, you will be charged extra. "On May 3rd, some netizens complained about Wuhan Mengju Emotional Consulting Service Co., Ltd." The staff of this emotional consulting company had no professional qualification certification at all. When the parties are in a bad mood, enlarge the matter itself and cheat the parties. "On May 26th, a netizen complained about Guangzhou Mu Xin Emotional Consulting Co., Ltd." At that time, I promised to get back together for a month, but now people I like ignore me. Don't go out and do things that hurt others. People who have just been lovelorn are already very fragile. "
Xiaoxiang morning herald reporter Li Shu