It is normal to fail the exam. We should learn to accept our children and face them gently and rationally. Don't be angry, don't threaten, don't link an exam with your child's future and amplify its negative effects. You must keep your emotions calm and send a message to your children: we have problems in learning, but this problem is not insoluble.
Second, don't compare children with other people's children.
"Why are you so stupid? Other students can get full marks. Everyone is taught by the same teacher. Others can get full marks. Why not? " Parents told their children that their self-esteem and self-confidence would be hurt, and they felt that they were really stupid and inferior to others, so they were labeled as such. Slowly, such labels are a kind of pressure and hint to children. Like a spell, children will turn around in your spell.
Third, tap and affirm children's progress
Children who don't study well also have advantages. They should be good at discovering children's progress and praising them. For example, the total score is higher than last time. A topic was written wrong last time, and it was done right this time; Good handwriting; Children have a positive attitude towards guilt.
Fourth, accompany your child to analyze the reasons for not doing well in the exam.
There are many reasons for failing in the exam, such as poor basic knowledge, improper learning methods, or insufficient basic training. Is it a problem in life, physical discomfort or stage fright? Is it a problem of reading ability or a problem of incomplete understanding of the meaning of the question? As parents, it is necessary to help children find the "disease" together in order to "prescribe the right medicine".
Fifth, formulate specific countermeasures and implement them.
We help children find the reasons together, so we should prescribe the right medicine and work out specific solutions to accompany children to break through each other and make up for the shortcomings. In this process, use your care and patience to observe and praise your child's efforts and share the joy of every progress with your child.
Compared with children's achievements and growth, growth is always the first. Life is long. As long as parents are with us, we believe that children will make progress every day.