When chatting, you can make a good impression and narrow the distance by the following points:
1. Establish an alliance and create a * * * label. If you are a fellow villager, you can talk about dialects and hometown customs. If you have * * * overlapping circles, or have similar identities, such as joining the same club, or having the same hobbies, you can also discuss them. Here you can know in advance what he likes and where he comes from, and take the initiative to create the same label.
2. Usually pay more attention to his hairstyle, clothes or things he is good at, cut into the details, sincerely praise each other and start a topic. Everyone likes to be praised.
3. Listen more when chatting, don't talk about yourself, try to let the other person talk, satisfy people's desire for expression, ask questions appropriately when necessary, and guide the other person to talk more.
4. You can properly expose your own shortcomings, let people off guard and feel that you are real and easy to get along with.
When chatting rises, find an excuse to end the topic appropriately and happily, leaving the other person with a feeling of wanting more, don't say too much at once, and let him look forward to the next chat.
You can make a small request within his ability and ask him to do you a small favor. People will have a good impression on the people they have helped, and they will rationalize it. This person is good, so I will help. Therefore, it may be a good method and topic to ask him to do you a small favor at the right time.
These are some of my suggestions, hoping to help you. Let's go
Know yourself and yourself.
See what people say.
Create the same topic, build alliances,