What if the wife is paranoid and extreme?

The prodigal son never changes his gold. He has been together for nine years, and he should have spent seven years. It stands to reason that the relationship should be relatively stable. If the relationship is still a little tense, both sides should find out the reason and analyze it carefully. Every family is different, so the coping strategies are different. Therefore, how to adjust the relationship between husband and wife depends on the husband and wife themselves, and outsiders have no way to start. Even if they get involved, it will get more and more chaotic. It is for this reason that it is difficult for an upright official to break housework. I will talk about my personal views on the above issues and give my personal solutions.

1, housework can't tell who is right or wrong, so don't argue between two people about who is right or wrong, because women are unreasonable, and women don't want to hear men say, "Women are really unreasonable!" ;

2. If it is not a matter of principle, follow the woman. It seems that this woman has been deeply hurt. If I were your friend, I wouldn't bring my cell phone. Let my wife take my mobile phone. No matter who calls, let her answer it, regardless of the size of the phone, so that she won't be suspicious because of the phone problem. The premise is that men can't have any phone numbers that their wives can't know behind their backs, so that everyone can know what to do. My wife won't stay up then, and she won't listen to your phone calls anymore. If she takes care of it again, call her again. That's enough. If there are business matters, it will be easier for customers to find her and not bother her to death.

What men have done before is not easy to do. Let her do it. She will help you clean up and watch you. She would say, if you don't clean up the house, go back to her. I'm afraid you'll misunderstand that I brought another woman home. I'm afraid you'll be angry and worried. This is a sign of loving you. Then she has nothing to say. The way of speaking is to care about her, afraid of her anger, afraid of her worry, and generally there is no quarrel;

Even though she bought me clothes, I still don't wear them. I wear rags on purpose, which is the best. In short, I just can't see how to wear it, especially on important occasions. For example, if you meet your mother-in-law and her friend, she asks you why you don't get dressed. If you wear rags, you say it's comfortable. She insisted that you wear it, and you found an excuse to say that your stomach hurts. Then she covered her stomach and went to the toilet. After several times, she usually has two choices: (1) she goes by herself; (2) She won't go, she will accompany you to see a doctor. If it is 1, she goes first, and then you go where she goes in rags. The purpose is to lose her person and let her friends talk about her, which will definitely put her under pressure. If it is 2, you should go to the hospital to see a doctor. After seeing a doctor, you said that your stomach suddenly recovered and the pain stopped. We must make her compromise with you. After a long time, she can't beat you, so she doesn't care.

5. See if you want to go. Don't worry if you want to leave. Make a noise if you want. Scold if you want, regardless of each other's feelings. If you don't want to leave, you should avoid it You are clamoring for a divorce, I won't argue with you. I will ignore your malicious scolding and ask with a fake smile, "Wife, are you tired?" I'll pour you a glass of water and you won't be Japanese. "

6, always remember that men are better than women, whether endurance or other aspects, no matter what the situation, no one can force me to do what I don't want to do, marriage is the same, I don't want to leave, there is nothing anyone can do, women still have to coax, dealing with women for nine years, we must sum up a set of effective methods, relying on more observation and more ways.

7. Divorce is the result of many reasons. No one can be 100% sure, what's more, this is someone else's business, and we can't control it. Finally, we will go there. Please consider the pros and cons carefully and don't let yourself regret it. Just don't let yourself be at a loss. Often a woman's divorce is just on her lips, and sometimes she can be spared and do what she should do, and there will be no regrets if she tries her best. I have tried my best to hold your heart. I think I will never go to the end with you. This is destiny. Accept it. It's impossible to say that you want me dead. I'll give it to you. When you meet the other half of your life, cherish it, whether you love her or not. Try to manage the your relationship well, and don't regret it after breaking up. I wish your friend happiness!