In fact, the landlord, one: you should first adjust your mentality, don't care about other people's opinions blindly, and of course you can't completely ignore them. You should have your own personality, but you should also build your personality within the acceptable range of most normal people (if it is a non-mainstream personality, you can do it yourself, I despise it)
Two: don't deliberately pursue talking to others, and don't care too much about whether you participate. You are you, whether you are involved or not.
Three: read more books, read newspapers, or other entertainment projects, and have what you know and are good at. When talking to others, you should adjust your mentality and speak at an appropriate speed. Take your time, speak slowly. You can be a serious listener to topics that you don't know and are not good at, or you can participate in topics that you are good at and know at an appropriate time, but it is not recommended to dominate this topic from the beginning, nor to say everything you know. )
Four: in front of everyone, don't swear without surprises. You should agree with the correct view and say yes; For the wrong view; You can keep silent, if you want to correct it, try to say it in more euphemistic language, but you can't ask others to accept it. Whether others accept it or not is someone else's business. You can say it appropriately.
Five: Your temper can be eccentric, but as long as you understand it yourself, don't break into a furious rage. I'm also an eccentric person, but I tidy up well in front of my friends and seldom get emotional.
Six: (Last but not least, the simplest and most useful method) When you are with everyone, you should keep smiling properly, but don't laugh too exaggerated and stiff, and try to smile at the right time. In fact, the reason why I seldom speak is that my expressive ability is a little poor, which belongs to the rough and fuzzy sound quality. My tongue is a little short, and I can't control my voice. But I am very popular, mainly because I smile all day and have a good attitude, and others feel very happy with me. I'm funny, too. Similarly, I am also a good listener. Others like to tell me what they think and let me keep it a secret from him. So: Many times, my friends have the patience to listen to me slowly. )