The first time I spoke to Xiaoling, I felt that her words were very similar to hers: pursuing and persisting in my dreams, living a happy life, being naive like a child; I feel that all the beautiful and lovely stories in the series "For Little Readers" were written by her.
As the host of children's programs and the creator of children's literature, Xiaoling Dingdang thinks children are her friends and cherishes their friendship. She often communicates and talks with children. Because of frequent communication, her understanding of children is getting clearer and clearer. She said: children are not as naive as many adults think. They know a lot. Especially today's children, perhaps because of the influence of the surrounding environment, perhaps because of exposure to rich information, smart and mature, independent and thoughtful, but not experienced enough. Therefore, she expressed her experiences and thoughts by telling stories in the book, hoping to give some inspiration to the children. Dreams, happiness, getting along with others and virtue are four things that every child needs to pursue, appreciate and learn in the process of growing up. Through the systematization and expansion of these four concepts, Xiaoling has learned four books: Dream Storm, Happy Elf, Sweeter than Candy and Garden of Virtue.
Xiaoling dingdong hopes that every child can live a happy life. She thinks it is very important for people to live a happy life. She said: people's life is very short, and the intersection of sadness and joy is too long in this short life, so why don't we make ourselves happy? Everyone will have a lot of confusion and troubles, and will have to bear a lot of external pressure, but these are not reasons to make themselves unhappy, because happiness is a state of mind created by ourselves. As long as we do what makes us happy, we will feel happy.
So what can you do to make yourself happy? Xiaoling's answer is: do what you like best. We can understand this as the pursuit of dreams. Xiaoling jingled and said that before the age of 25, she was in a daze and didn't know what she wanted to do. At the age of twenty-five, I suddenly found that I was born to write children's literature. Because she likes this job, she writes after work and lives a full and happy life. One of her friends, who never knows what she really wants to do, is engaged in a job she doesn't like and has a hard time. Therefore, she feels very lucky.
At the same time, she doesn't understand the methods adopted by some parents in their children's education. Nowadays, many parents arrange many classes for their children when they are very young: English, dance, piano and so on. There are also some parents who blindly stare at their children's studies and think that only homework is the most important thing, but they ignore their children's feelings. They haven't thought about what their children like and want to do. Ding Xiaoling Dong thinks it's silly to give children many classes. Just because parents are blind, because parents don't help their children find their favorite things to do. She also believes that children's grades are important, but their ability is more important. It will be an irreparable regret for their future if they only emphasize that their achievements hinder their all-round development.
When asked: "What kind of atmosphere do you want your children to grow up in the future", Xiaoling said without hesitation: "I hope my children grow up in a warm family with loving parents. I will not restrict him too much, but let him develop freely. " Suddenly, I think Xiaoling will be a good mother and her future children will be happy.