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I obviously like you, but I don't return your message. 1 wechat is the bond that keeps the relationship in society, especially between men and women. I used to need to cultivate my feelings face to face, but now I just need to chat frequently on WeChat to talk about the spark of love.
Between men and women, it is easy to talk about feelings when chatting, but women are always more sensitive. In the eyes of many women, if they like it, they should often send messages to cultivate their feelings.
However, life is not so free, and not everyone can live with their mobile phones all day.
Sometimes a man obviously likes a woman, but he doesn't return to WeChat, which will make a woman disheartened and think that the man has changed his mind, so he decisively said goodbye to him.
But just because a man doesn't return to WeChat doesn't mean he doesn't like you completely. He may be just busy, or he may have his own thoughts. Women should learn to analyze specific problems, don't misunderstand men's love for you, and don't make excuses for men's change of heart and avoidance.
I believe that many women will encounter such a situation in the relationship between men and women. Obviously, he once said that he likes you, and you can feel his love for you when you are together, but he always doesn't reply to your WeChat, which makes you very painful.
Today, I will tell you the story of four men: Why do men like you but don't return your WeChat?
Mr. Li, 29, is a bank clerk.
He said: "Because of work, I can't just look at my mobile phone at work, so I can't reply to her message in time, but this doesn't prove that I don't love her."
Mr. Li said that in fact, it is very simple for him not to return to women's WeChat because he is too busy at work.
Mr. Li is a bank teller. He works most of the day. How can he watch his mobile phone at any time?
In the face of the woman he likes, Mr. Li also wants to keep in touch with her, but the reality does not allow him to chat there with his mobile phone all day. Even if he thinks again, he can only hold back the news.
Mr. Chen, 26, is a freelancer.
He said: "You must have skills when you get along with women. Playing hard to get can firmly grasp a woman's heart. "
Mr. Chen's answer is more interesting. He told me that he didn't return women's messages, and he was playing hard to get.
Teacher Chen thinks that answering the message immediately will make women feel that men are too impatient and not stable at all. He wants to be calm in front of the woman he likes.
Therefore, he doesn't always reply to messages immediately. For him, if you love someone, you should leave room for them, and you should not pester them at any time.
Mr. Bai, aged 32, manager of our company:
"At my age, if I return a woman's information for the second time, wouldn't it be too diligent? Feelings are mutual, I have paid, and women should give me some responses. "
In Mr. Bai's view, liking a woman and returning messages every second will make this woman care too much about herself.
Therefore, he will selectively not return messages, because he wants women to care more about themselves, rather than he has always taken the initiative to pay.
Teacher Bai believes that both men and women are equally important in communication, and both are indispensable. If a man has been paying, he will be very tired.
Mr. He, 27, is an interior designer.
"If you don't return to WeChat, you must have changed your mind. Women always like to deceive themselves. In fact, the reason is very simple, they don't love it. "
Mr. He's answer is very direct. He said that if he didn't reply, he would change his mind and no longer like this woman.
Once I really liked it very much, but my feelings will change. Maybe one day I will not love it. In the face of a woman you don't like, it is naturally impossible to reply to the news in seconds.
Mr. He told me that there are always some women who like to make excuses for men. Obviously, many details prove that a man has changed his mind, but she doesn't want to believe it.
So women, why do men say they like you, but they don't return your messages? I'm afraid all the answers given by these four people are true. In fact, to sum up, it is nothing more than these reasons:
I'm too busy to reply to messages.
There is too much helplessness in the adult world, and it is impossible to send messages on mobile phones anytime and anywhere to cultivate feelings.
Men, in particular, devote themselves to their work when they are busy, and nothing can disturb him. Even if he has a woman who cares about him deeply, as long as he is engaged in his work, it is difficult to reply to the news immediately.
Women must learn to understand. Do you still like a man who talks with his mobile phone all day but doesn't work hard? Do you still dare to be with him? Dare you marry him?
In fact, sometimes giving men more tolerance is also giving themselves space.
Second, playing hard to get, don't want to appear too active.
Some men are so proud that they obviously like him, but they want women to take the initiative to care about him. Some men will be very happy when they see the news sent by women and enjoy the kindness of women to him.
In fact, in feelings, not only women need to care, but also men are insecure. They need more care from women, want to see their deep love, and ensure that women can't live without him.
Therefore, men will selectively not return information, in order to make women worry about him and care more about him.
Women should be considerate of men's behavior. In feelings, it is not only women who lose their temper. Men are only willing to be proud of you if they like you and love you.
Third, if you don't reply to the message for a long time, you are likely to change your mind.
There is another possibility that a man who obviously likes you but doesn't reply to WeChat messages has changed his mind and no longer loves you.
In this world, everything will change, and men's love is no exception. Maybe I chatted with you on WeChat the day before, and it was gone the next day.
This is a man. He doesn't like you and won't tell you directly. He will only stop replying to your messages. No matter what you say, no matter how much you say, you can't stir up ripples in his heart.
Women must learn to distinguish men's emotions, and don't spill their enthusiasm to people who don't love you.
It's so complicated for men and women to get along. Wechat chat can't determine a person's feelings, nor can it completely explain that men just don't love.
If you give up this relationship just because he didn't reply to the news, it's too hasty to handle it, so be careful to regret it later.
Whether men or women, in the face of feelings, we must learn to be tolerant. Everyone has his own life. Women can't ask men to be free to chat with you at any time. He also has his own things to do and his own responsibilities to shoulder.
More tolerance and more space for each other is actually a good way to make feelings more stable.
To love someone is to tolerate him and forgive him. Women should stop putting men in limbo because they don't return messages.
But at the same time, women should not be stupid. If a man says he loves you, but never replies to your WeChat, then you must know that he has changed his mind.
I obviously like you, but I don't return your messages. Some people say that "love doesn't have to be together, because being together is more harmful to each other." Sometimes it is good to love someone in your heart, knowing that fate is over, what's the point of pestering again?
Yunzhu met such a man. She said, "I know she loves me. She loves me very much, but he won't want to be with me. He must feel that he is dragging me down. " To really love someone is to hope that she can live a happy life.
When I can't give her happiness, I will let go. Because the man yunzhu likes had an accident at work, lost a leg and couldn't stand up anymore.
From then on, he avoided yunzhu. Although yunzhu didn't want to give up their feelings for each other and take care of him, he didn't agree anyway, just didn't want to be together again. He knows that his life is long and he can't get through the current difficulties. After all, if he loses a leg, how can he give her happiness? Can't even help her pick up food, it will only increase each other's troubles and sadness.
He often cries when he looks at her photos alone, but he is firm and ruthless in the face of her.
He loves her, but he won't take the initiative to contact her and won't let her contact himself. Even if he did, he simply said peace and wouldn't say anything more. Love is sometimes a feeling hidden in the heart, and the baby can't do it.
What kind of psychology is it when a man loves you and doesn't return your message?
First, fear can't give you happiness.
When a man cannot give you happiness, he will refuse to contact you. He knows it will only slow you down. Why drag you to ruin his happiness when he can't give you love?
In some special circumstances, the more a man loves you, the more he wants you to leave him, because then he won't feel guilty about it. Life is long. If he can't give you happiness, why let you go for a lifetime?
Second, I feel inferior and afraid of being looked down upon.
Some men like a woman, but they are far away from each other. Therefore, he will not take the initiative to contact women. He is afraid that he can't give each other happiness. Why talk? He will quietly pay attention to every move around you, but rarely take the initiative to contact you.
Some people don't confess because they are afraid of being rejected by you, and it will be embarrassing to meet again.
Third, I don't want to disturb your existing happiness.
When some people meet, that is, when the other person has another half or someone they like, maybe he has always liked you but never expressed it, because he knows that you are married or have your own other half, even if you love again, you can only let go and can't do immoral things.
A man's mind is always awake, and he understands that such a love triangle is ugly to each other, so why bother?
Fourth, I love you deeply, so I am willing to keep it in my heart all my life.
A junior high school classmate once told me that he liked his deskmate very much, so he liked to tease him and make her angry, and he also liked to watch her angry, but the girl didn't know until many years later. Seeing her classmate again aroused his feelings for her again.
Time flies, he said. I have been away for many years. I'd like to tell her, but now her children can play soy sauce. I'm happy to see her happy. Since you love her, don't bother her again.
I have been paying attention to her dynamics and know that she is happy. As long as she is a little unhappy, I will be in a bad mood. This may be the reason why I never let him go. Sometimes she talks to me, but I try not to reply to her. I'm afraid I can't control my feelings for her. Therefore, I want to keep this feeling in my heart all my life.
Sometimes, men don't take the initiative to contact you and reply to you, not because they don't like you and don't have you in their hearts, but because they love you so much that they don't want to bother, so they are willing to entangle themselves. Have you ever met such a man?
I obviously like you, but I don't return your messages. 3. A woman's heart, looking for a needle in a haystack, you can't know a woman 100% when you think about it. In addition, women's moods change quickly. If you don't hold it right, you will ignore the thunder. When she scolded you, you were stupid and didn't know what you had done wrong. This is why rain or shine keeps coming. When she wants to stick to you, she will always be around you. She doesn't like being disturbed when she is angry.
If a man wants not to be scolded, he must learn to read minds and know how to read a woman's mood. Of course, not all women are the same. Some women love you so much that they can't bear to make you angry. Everything depends on you. But this is really a minority. In my opinion, women have a great chance of losing their temper.
When everyone is in a mood, you send her a message, but she doesn't answer you or chat, and she suddenly disappears. I left you alone, but she obviously likes you. Why did she leave you alone? There is only one reason, boys take a good look.
The woman who likes you doesn't reply because you offended her.
Women often have different views from you. At this time, you should bypass this topic and say something to make her happy. Only if she approves, she will ignore you, otherwise she will keep hanging you.
My friend Xiao Ju told me that every time my boyfriend discusses something with her, he always comes to a conclusion. Originally, it was to discuss other people's business, but in the end it became their own business, which led to the two people breaking up in discord. Often at this time, Xiao Ju ignored him, didn't give her boyfriend back information, and let him wake himself up. Let's just say that when I went out for dinner today, I saw my little sister at the next table with a pet dog. I thought the dog was cute and wanted to have one, but I didn't have time to take care of it and my living space was limited. So after a whole meal, I talked about dogs, but my boyfriend said that it is more expensive to have a dog than a child now, so don't bother. You have to pay time, energy and money, so why bother to find something for yourself?
I am very unhappy. Why does he only think of these things, but he can't think of how much fun dogs will bring to his master and how much trouble they will cure? It's so tacky, I don't even know how many soul collisions people will have when they contact animals. In the evening, he sent me a message and kept talking about it. I am angry and don't want to talk to him. I didn't say I had to buy anything. That's all I said. He reacted so much that he ignored me. I don't know what my thoughts are like. The more he talks about how bad it is, the angrier I get. Why does he always impose his ideas on me? I hate being blocked and not returning his messages. Although he kept sending it, I still ignored it.
This is a trivial matter. If a man behaves properly, it will certainly not cause his girlfriend's anger and lead her to ignore him. In fact, women like this man just because he offended her and didn't care about him. Men should not think that such a small matter can cause women's dissatisfaction. Men should reflect on whether they have gone too far and have a bad tone. More consideration should be given to women's feelings. Don't step on the minefield. When you know that she is unhappy, don't discuss it again. But to put down your posture and coax her. In this way, the contradiction in your will not deepen, and women will be soft on you.
In fact, the reason why women hold their breath can be very simple. As long as something goes wrong, she doesn't follow her way of thinking and says something that offends her, which will cause her to ignore you. Therefore, if you want to understand a woman's mind, you must follow her and avoid topics she doesn't like. Blocking the air is a trivial matter. The key is to know how to coax it back and make trouble. It doesn't matter much. The key is to control it well, not too big. Don't say that women are petty, men should be heroic, and let her go if they like her.