Hou Jingjing, female, Han nationality, born in party member, 1975, 1 1, born in Dangtu, Anhui Province, is a professor and doctoral supervisor at the School of Education Science of Nanjing Normal University. Over the years, she has overcome difficulties, worked hard, loved her work and contributed to society. His deeds were written into moral education textbooks for primary and secondary schools, reported by CCTV news broadcast columns, People's Daily, china national radio and other media, and had a wide social impact.
There are too many "unforgettable" memories in Hou Jingjing's memory: 1986 The hospital misdiagnosed her legs and forced her to drop out of school; Ten years, more than 3,000 days and nights, accompanied by sweat and tears, she overcame all difficulties and taught herself middle school, junior college and undergraduate course. 1998, admitted to Nanjing Normal University for a master's degree with the first total score; In the same year when she got her master's degree, she was admitted to the School of Education Science of Nanjing Normal University as the first interdisciplinary doctoral student, and studied philosophy of education under the famous professor Zhu Xiaoman. Know your boyfriend to salute Hua Li and hold hands with him; Zhang, the vice governor of Jiangsu, got married himself ... and this group became the life of Hou Jingjing.
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Hou Jingjing's life has gone through countless hardships, and as the groom, Xiang Hua has the most say. According to him, in order to prevent leg contraction, Hou Jingjing should do three times of ultra-intense physical exercise every day, "step on" the wheel fixed on the bracket with weak legs, then go to bed and pick up his legs with both hands to bend and stretch, and then beat his legs for an hour, sweating every time; She goes to class in a wheelchair every day. In order to avoid going to the toilet, she dared not drink water before class. The doctoral research direction she applied for is a brand-new subject for her, and everything should be started from scratch. ...
But it was in such difficulties that she created one miracle after another. The graduate student required to complete 34 credits, but she completed 50 credits in the first year; In the third grade, she won the special prize of "Zhu Scholarship". Only two people in the whole school won this honor, one was a doctoral student, and the only graduate student was her. In three years, she published nine papers, three of which were published in national core journals; When she was a graduate student, she participated in the translation of The Diary of Walter Lin, which has been published. ...
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Xiang Hua summed up his love for Hou Jingjing in one sentence: "Jingjing's confidence and naivety attracted me, which was an irresistible force", and it was this feeling that made him deeply fall in love with Hou Jingjing. Since I met Hou Jingjing in the graduate school, Xiang Huali and four male students have formed a special group to help Hou Jingjing lift the wheelchair upstairs and downstairs in turn every day. According to the duty watch, Xiang Hua pays a courtesy every five days, but he doesn't trust to help every day. He is responsible for delivering letters to his classmates. There are many letters from Hou Jingjing. Every day he takes the opportunity to deliver letters to Hou Jingjing's room. His persistence finally moved Hou Jingjing, so they became lovers.
From Hou Jingjing's point of view, her choice of spouse is actually quite simple: find someone who is good in character, good at study, practical and good to herself. And all this is in Huali. So two hands tightly hold together, has not been separated.
Hou Jingjing is also one of the female doctors. We can draw the following conclusions from her experience of taking off the bill:
First, as a female doctor, we should be clear about our own mate selection criteria. The emotional garden of female doctors has contacted many female doctors who can't find a partner and found that their criteria for choosing a spouse are not clear. Sometimes they want to find someone with a career, and sometimes they feel that men who pay too much attention to their careers don't care about themselves. In such a tangle, what flows away is time, and what gains is disappointment.
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Second, some female doctors are hesitant in choosing a spouse and lack the courage to make decisive decisions. Female doctor's emotional garden often receives letters from such female doctors, saying that they know a man and have been dating for a while, but they always make up their minds when facing each other's courtship. In fact, judging from Dr. Hou Jingjing's choice of spouse, she is very decisive. After a month of courtship, she nodded in agreement. It can be seen that Dr. Hou is a man who knows what kind of man he wants and makes a decisive decision when he meets the opportunity. So it is.
Third, female doctors should take the initiative to take off the bill. The emotional garden of female doctors usually contacts and understands that a large number of female doctors blame their busy study, busy work and small range of activities for not leaving the unit, and they are only half right. In fact, many of us have similar experiences, such as studying, working and falling in love. Why do many people harvest love is because these people understand the truth that "flowers must be folded straight, so don't wait for no flowers to be empty".
To this end, the Female Doctor Emotional Garden suggests that those female doctors who have not been able to take off their bills should pay attention to the following points:
First, it is important to shape a "lovely me". In short, if you are a person who loves flowers, it is just around the corner to take off the order. In life, some female doctors give people the impression that they are serious, rigorous, unsmiling, and a gesture of rejecting people thousands of miles away. Therefore, I suggest to change myself and be a lovely big girl, and I will definitely find the right person soon.
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Second, it is easier to find people around you. The emotional garden of female doctors found that many female doctors who quickly took off their orders were looking for people around them, such as familiar people introduced by family, relatives, colleagues, classmates and friends. This has an advantage, that is, knowing the root of the matter, knowing each other's moral integrity, economic foundation and dealing with others, it is easy to make a quick decision and get married soon.
Third, a female doctor should be a decisive woman. After investigation, the emotional garden for female doctors found that only girls in junior high schools in rural areas are very popular in the marriage and love market, and the success rate of mate selection is very high. The most important thing is that they use the way of on-site office, which is very efficient. After girls and boys have known each other for a period of time and feel ok, they will gather seven aunts and eight aunts to enter the man's house to "look after the house": mainly look at the man's family situation, understand the man's personality, deal with people, treat people with things and family economic conditions. After "housekeeping", the seven aunts and eight aunts will give their opinions to the girls, and the girls will make a decision whether to marry or not, and most girls will make a decision on the spot. It turns out that this trick is very useful.