"Baby, 1 1 year has passed in a hurry. When you were frustrated, you came to my side. Your beauty, gentleness, encouragement and hard work have kept me alive. Maybe someone did a good thing for me in a previous life. Valentine's day is coming. I want to make a wish: wife, let's grow old together and enjoy a beautiful romantic life! "
"I think the strongest bond in marriage is not children, not money, but spiritual growth. Marry you, I have no regrets in my life! Value! "
These are all messages from Xiaoyu's husband David. Xiaoyu has been reluctant to delete. Every time she sees it, she feels deep love flowing in her heart.
"Happiness is actually very simple, that is, growing old with the person you love." Speaking of David, Xiaoyu's face showed a smile.
Rack one's brains for love
David and I are both first love. I was 17 years old and he was 20 years old. He goes to college in the same school in Xuzhou. He is one year older than me, and sometimes he takes public classes together. Every class, he sits behind me and pays attention to me quietly. He often goes to our dormitory. He borrows this today and that tomorrow, looking for a chance to talk to me.
At that time, I often hung my traveling shoes on the windowsill of the dormitory on the second floor. Our window faces the playground. David has a good figure and likes playing basketball. After playing football, I always hit my shoes with small stones and then pretend to find them and give them back to me. At that time, I still wondered: "Why do I always let him pick up my shoes?" It was not until we fell in love that he told me, "I racked my brains to get to know you!" " "
You know, nowadays college students fall in love a lot, but everyone never thinks about the future. We are the only ones who really get married after graduation.
Run away from home for love
After graduation, I took David home to Suzhou and went to see his sister first. My sister objected on the spot: "His home is so far away, I heard that northern Jiangsu is quite poor, and you don't know his roots. You will be angry in the future, but nobody cares! "
My sister told my parents about it, and the whole family unanimously opposed it. My dad said, "If you want to fall in love with him, I don't want your daughter!" " "My family locked me up and didn't allow me to answer the phone. David called and heard my voice before he dared to say something in a hurry. I advised him to give up, but he kept waiting for me and encouraged me never to give up. Soon, he found a job in Kunshan.
Being locked up by my parents, I can't see David, let alone know his recent situation. Three months later, David suddenly called from his hometown and said that he had acute appendicitis. That day, my parents and sister went to relatives' house for a wedding banquet. I took the opportunity to run out and prepare to go back to Xuzhou to visit David.
Man Wenjun's "Know You" was playing in the taxi, and it suddenly occurred to me that when I left, my father would definitely blame my mother for not thinking highly of me and let my mother be wronged with me ... The more I think about it, the more sad I feel, and the more tears I shed. The driver advised me: "Xiao Ni 'er's family, don't do anything stupid! Let's go home! "
I went home with my luggage.
But all I can think about is David, who is suffering from the disease. I couldn't let him go, so I ran out of the house, left a letter for my parents, ran to Xuzhou and moved to David's house in Fengxian County.
Hardly had I got off the bus when I got a call from my father. Dad was very angry and shouted on the phone, "I don't have your daughter anymore!" " You shouldn't come back! "
For the sake of life, work together.
David was ecstatic when he received my call to Xuzhou. After he recovered from his illness, David and I rented a house near our university and bought pots, pans and other daily necessities. 800 yuan is running out. David works in a hotel and earns only a few hundred yuan a month. I didn't have to worry about food and clothing. Now I know how difficult it is to live independently.
I told David that I had to get a job, too. David didn't agree at first, but I insisted. I'm sorry to say that I must be happy in the future. Because I have been studying in Xuzhou for four years, I often go shopping in Chaoyang market with my classmates, so my first goal is to go to the clothing market there. I asked the person next to the store "do you want a waiter" and lied that I had worked for two years. An aunt in her fifties received me, asked me a few questions and promised to try it all afternoon. When I got off work, my aunt said, "Of course you haven't done it, but you are smart. Cultivate it. The monthly salary is 500 yuan. " I was so excited that I even said, "Thank you, Aunt!" Then I called David.
In order to save money on tickets, I bought a second-hand bicycle, and I rushed from the southern district to the northern district every day. I got up at 5: 30 in the morning, cooked meals and went to work. In those days, we seldom met. When I left in the morning, he was still sleeping; I go home at night and he goes to work again; He got off work after 1 1 in the evening, and I slept again ... I can only meet once or twice a month, and I can only leave a note. At that time, there was no mobile phone, and the BP machine 1000 was more than RMB, so I couldn't afford it.
Such a day, although hard, is also calm, and there is a touch of warmth between David and me.
After staying for several months, one day my sister called and said, "You are finished with him. My dad wants to find you a job in Suzhou. " His family also urged him to go home. He is an only child and his family is okay. His parents are worried that he will be wronged outside.
On second thought, I left a note: "Let's break up and go home and live a good life. We are still friends. " David didn't want to, so I said, "Look at our hard life! Maybe you let go, I am still happy! " He reluctantly agreed.
We all quit our jobs and I bought daily necessities. I'll send him away first. My ticket is for the next day. Seeing David off, I was alone in an empty room, and my heart suddenly hung up. In a daze, about one or two in the morning, suddenly someone knocked at the door: "Open the door!" " "When I was excited, it was David's voice! Opening the door, we seem to have been separated for ten years, hugging each other and crying. He said: "I'm gone, and I'll regret it all my life!" "No matter how hard it is, we all want to stay together and don't allow anyone to leave! Your parents are afraid that I am not good to you, but I will give you happiness and show them! "
I was really poor at that time, but I was really happy.
We started the struggle again. I still went to the market to sell clothes, and David jumped ship and went to the decoration company. In the first month, he got his salary and ran home all the way: "Wife, I made money, 3000 yuan!" Buy it if you want! " I thought for a long time: "Buy a bowl of rolled noodles?" At that time, eating a bowl of rolled noodles was a luxury. Usually we only eat bean sprouts, a big bag of 50 cents. David spent 800 yuan to buy me a ring. He only sent me flowers.
Once I had a bad cold, so I didn't have money, so I didn't dare to go to a big hospital. In the end, I only had the money from 5.5 yuan. David spent 0.4 yuan calling a friend to borrow money, and the other party was not in Xuzhou. He bought two big bags of instant noodles with 5 yuan money and left them for me. The next day, the doctor in the clinic told me to give me an infusion as soon as possible to reduce inflammation. At that time, there was no "voluntary blood donation", so David went to the blood station to sell 200ml of blood and brought it back 150 yuan to treat me. I didn't know it at that time, or his friend told me, "You didn't lose ordinary liquid, it was David's blood!" "
1999 On my birthday, I only bought two bowls of Lamian Noodles's money, and neither of us wanted to eat the meat inside. Later, when he brought me peppers, I hid the meat under his face. On the way home, David said, "You are so narrow-minded. You put meat on my face!" " There are many people in the hotel, so it's a pity to let them go again. But you are so thin, you should eat more in the future! "
I was really poor at that time, but I was really happy. At night, we walked hand in hand in the street and looked out of the window. I said, "Honey, when can we have our own windows?" David squeezed my hand and promised, "There will be bread and everything!" "
David is a hardworking and honest man. He works hard to fulfill his promise. Now, we have bought two houses.
He regards me as a treasure in his hand.
After several years of hard work, we have some savings and want to have our own business. In 2000, we decided to rent a facade to do clothing business, but David's face turned red as soon as he spoke, and it was enough to earn 10 for a piece of clothing. How to do this? In the evening, we sat in bed and practiced "business". I "buy clothes" and he "sells clothes", rehearsing all possible situations. In less than a month, he left school. Now my family business depends on him.
Economic conditions have improved, but he has not changed, and he still regards me as a "treasure in his hand". In 2003, the eldest daughter was born, and David was very satisfied. Later, I got pregnant and wanted to give him another son (allowed by his hometown policy), but it turned out to be a daughter. I was discouraged, but David said, "This is an old gift. I will love you well! " "
He dotes on me like a child. He often gets up and covers me in the evening. He does all the laundry and cooking, and he also operates an automatic washing machine. He seldom socializes and occasionally goes to the wine table, but he keeps calling and texting me for fear that I will miss him more. I comforted him: "That's not necessary! You are too tired. " He said, "What's so good about wine? It is better to drink with you! " We made money in business and he didn't care. I took the passbook, and my name was on it.
We have been together for more than ten years, and there are still endless words every day. He told me about the business in the store, and I helped him make suggestions; I told him about my family and then he commented. I accidentally arrived after 1 1 at night.
What David has always felt most guilty about is that he didn't have a decent wedding. I told him: "I don't care about form, my greatest hope is to grow old with you." Didn't the TV series "Golden Wedding" broadcast some time ago? David promised that when we got married, he would prepare a grand golden wedding ceremony for me. I believe he can do it, and so can we!
"I was really poor at that time, but I was really happy." Yes, true happiness has nothing to do with poverty and wealth.