MengMeng has been a little upset recently.
Why are you unhappy?
Although she has been a good wife and mother for a long time, her husband treats her badly, often stays out at night, and occasionally shows envy to colleagues who have mistresses.
She was in great pain for it.
My friend said that you should learn to communicate, so she bought a bunch of books to teach people how to communicate and learned a lot of communication theories, but it was useless.
Friends also advised her that men like beautiful women and let her dress up. But even though she does a little grooming and light makeup at home every day, her husband still does.
What is the reason?
After digging deep, I realized that my husband didn't like her at that time, and only got married because her family could help his future. My husband once said after getting drunk that there was no problem between them, just a lack of feeling.
What should we do?
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To solve this problem.
The nature of this problem needs to be clarified.
The essence of this question is: how to make a man who doesn't love himself fall in love with himself? Or how to make a man who doesn't love himself forget himself?
If you want men to forget themselves, you need to use the lowest energy effect.
What is the lowest energy point effect?
Simply put: give instructions to the subconscious, and the subconscious can't digest negative words. When people are frightened or surprised, the subconscious mind has the lowest defense point and is the easiest to be violated. Then the subconscious will continue to have an impact on your psychology.
What do you mean?
Let's do a little exercise and you'll understand.
Now, please tell yourself in your heart, never remember red, never remember red.
Then please close your eyes.
Now please tell me, what color do you want?
Is it red?
Why does it linger in your mind the more you tell yourself not to remember it?
This is because our subconscious mind can't digest negative words. When you say "don't" and "don't", what is finally absorbed by the subconscious mind is your intention to deny.
When you can communicate with the subconscious and input your own instructions, you learn psychological hypnosis.
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Hypnosis is definitely not pulling the watch in front of people in TV dramas, but only stunning people. True psychological hypnosis refers to communicating with the subconscious and giving instructions to the subconscious.
There is a classic case about hypnosis:
One day, Milton Erickson, the "father of modern hypnosis", was explaining hypnosis knowledge to a group of listeners. Suddenly, a young man stood up and said, "You are totally fooling people. You can fool me here if you have the ability. "
Eriksson said, "No problem, come to the podium and let everyone see it clearly."
When the young man walked to the podium, Eriksson asked, "What's your name, please?"
The young man naturally held out his hand, but just as he was about to hold it, Eriksson put it down and bent down to tie his shoelaces. The young man immediately froze and looked at Eriksson blankly.
After the young man said his name, Eriksson pretended not to hear him and said, "Sorry, I didn't hear him. What is your name, please? " At the same time, he held out his right hand.
The young man held out his hand again, but then Eriksson put it down again and bent down to tie his shoelaces, so the young man froze again.
Eriksson looked at him and said, "Now close your eyes and take a few deep breaths." Then, the young man who always said Eriksson was fooling people quickly went into hypnosis.
How did this hypnosis happen? Young people become speechless and their minds are blank, which is called "the lowest point of energy", while Eriksson holds out his right hand, which is a "mechanical reaction".
Because this action is rarely thought through the brain, it is only made naturally out of courtesy. When Eriksson breaks the young man's mechanical reaction, the "program" in the young man's mind can't run, and he will suddenly become blank and reach the lowest point of energy. At this time, it is the best time to give instructions.
To put it bluntly, the process of hypnosis is to break the mechanical reaction, let the target enter the lowest point of energy, and then give the other person subconscious instructions.
This is the "lowest energy point effect".
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Let's go back to the above case.
Why can't my husband fall in love with MengMeng after all her work (learning communication skills and makeup)?
Because of this, work is only done at the level of "consciousness", while feelings are handled by "subconscious", so the effect is not very strong.
If you want men to remember you, or believe that falling in love with you is destiny takes a hand, you must start from the subconscious and give instructions to the subconscious.
So what is MengMeng going to do?
For example, dress yourself up beautifully, deliberately sway in front of her husband, and then tell him that he is going to travel for a few weeks, so that he must never think about himself. Say it again.
He must be thinking, "I don't even like you. How can I miss you? " .
I wonder, this time is the time when the lowest point of ability appears, because the subconscious mind can't digest "negative words", so the more you emphasize no, the easier it is to enter the other person's subconscious mind and the easier it is to lay an anchor in the other person's psychology.
And once you plant the anchor, you will never forget it. It is natural for the other person to fall in love with you.
This is the lowest point effect of energy, have you learned?