Love doesn't succeed with the right eyes. So, when you know her better, consider the actual operation.
Otherwise, people have boyfriends or even get married. What would you do? Therefore, understanding is the first step.
When you get to know her, you can be sure that she is the one you want.
Then, it is recommended to start with contact. You don't have to call or anything to meet. It is very likely to be rejected.
But it is necessary to find an excuse to talk to her. Then it is normal for you to ask her questions.
As long as you can get in touch with it, don't be too straightforward. Try to spread your thoughts, such as what you want to buy for someone, but you are not sure and need her to help you solve it.
The excuse is to buy things, but we can't always talk about buying and selling or a commodity. .
So as to get some basic information about her preferences from her.
For example, you tell her that you want to buy a gift for your mother. It is required to be practical and not fancy, to be liked by women, and not too expensive.
At this time, you can introduce yourself. For example, I am a student who is about to graduate from college. Go to work immediately, make some money during the holiday, and want to repay my mother. And tell her that I can make money when I grow up.
Tell her your basic information through introduction. You are very filial. Your future development and so on.
Then ask her, I have XX money and want to buy a gift for my mother. If you were in my position, what would you buy? From your mother's point of view, what do you want? In this way, from her words, you can know her basic preferences. What do you like, practical or romantic, flowers or bags? Of course, this is not necessarily accurate. Just give you a general direction.
However, you can talk to her a lot in the middle. But enough is enough. Avoid causing her disgust because you ask too many questions.
Your reaction depends on her reaction. If she is angry, you should talk less. Stop the conversation decisively.
As long as you have a successful communication for the first time, it is easy to do it for the second time or even more.
Next time, you can tell her that what you chose last time was really good, that your mother was satisfied and happy, and so on. Give her a compliment.
Then talk less and say something thank you. Leave. .
You can still use this method next time. . For example, I told my classmates the idea of buying something for my mother.
They want to do the same, but they don't want to send me the same thing. I came to ask you again. . You can help me choose something.
After talking for three times, she didn't dislike you. Then, you have a fifty-fifty chance.
In her mind, you are an ordinary friend. The purpose of approaching has been achieved.
As for the change from ordinary friends to boyfriend and girlfriend, it is nothing more than a confession on a certain day and occasion.
This is up to you to play.
The above is just an example, not for you to copy. Just give you an idea. . Don't be smart. .