Mentality of drinkers:
1, I am a hero!
Environment makes people, and the parents of alcoholics have the habit of drinking. I have been in contact since I was a child, and I have developed the habit of drinking. A few people must reflect!
2, drown your sorrows in wine and escape from reality.
Pretending to be drunk is to cover up inner hypocrisy or pain, such as a spoiled child who can't work and be idle when he grows up. To hide himself, he drinks a little every day: I'm drunk, I can't do it. When there is pressure, when there is pain, I don't know anything, so I drink to escape from reality, thinking that I can ignore other things when I am drunk.
3, I can drink, I have great skills!
Some people are very proud of their capacity for drinking, and they drink heavily on the wine table. After drinking, they show off in the street and say, I'm not drunk, I can drink.
4, there are many wine fields, and the popularity is good!
I have many friends, a big career and many social activities. Look at my scenery and my success!
5, get angry after drinking, export gas!
Who do you have a grudge against on weekdays? Who dares to provoke me when I get angry after drinking? I'm drunk.
6, insomnia-drinking and sleeping
Many people sleep by drinking because they can't sleep at night.
There are several reasons.
1, abstainers can't take care of themselves, can't control their drinking, and don't want to quit drinking!
2, alcohol is really dependent.
3. Psychological problems are the cause of alcohol addiction.
4. Alcohol addiction is a disease. And I can't control myself.
Therefore, you need the help of your family. Many family members said: he wants to drink, but he can't live up to expectations and can't control it.
The psychology of family members can be understood, but it is wrong! Some people have been hospitalized for three or five times, but they still drink when they get home, and their families are also very discouraged.
Based on the above four points, we can see that drinking is a serious disease and needs the treatment of doctors. Abstainers are not responsible! More need a firm attitude and correct understanding of the family!
Actually, drinking is like having a fever. Your family doesn't want to have a fever, and neither do the patients. The reason is that fever is a disease that you can't control and needs treatment. Don't be transferred by human will!
Therefore, we should understand the particularity and complexity of the disease. Alcohol addiction is a disease, which needs the scientific treatment of doctors and the understanding and cooperation of family members. You don't stop drinking after a few days in hospital!
Both medication and psychotherapy are needed, and it takes time!
Some people say: I have been to the hospital several times, and I still drink when I go home. I don't care about him, and I don't live up to expectations, so I give up treatment.
These are all misunderstandings! Many patients fail to quit because they don't understand! It's not about alcohol, medicine, doctors and alcoholics, but about the understanding of family members! ! !
To deal with alcohol addiction, we must deal with alcohol addiction, alcohol stage symptoms, mental and psychological disorders, sleep and emotions at the same time, in order to be truly successful!
Remember! Remember! Remember!
The key to success in abstinence is understanding. Understand the causes and mechanisms of alcohol addiction first, and then understand the psychological and pathological changes. Once it is clear, stop complaining and things will be easy!
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