If you want to live a leisurely and wonderful life, you must simplify the complex and live a simple life. When you are simple, the world becomes simple.
Learn the following three points, I hope you also have the ability to simplify the complex.
1. The simpler the purpose, the easier it is to succeed.
There is a huge fan of Kobe who fell in love with Kobe when he was a teenager in junior high school. He was fascinated by Kobe's jumping power. So he tried his best to collect news about Kobe. His brilliance, success, injuries ... all touched his heart. From teenager to father, Kobe grew up with him.
I want to write a book for Kobe, he thought. When he told the idea to others, everyone objected. Some people say it's too late. Kobe has retired and it's not easy to publish after writing. Some people think that writing biographies is all about making wedding dresses for others. If it can't be published, it will be in vain.
However, in one's life, one must always do something that is not for fame and fortune.
As a fan, he wants to present a real Kobe objectively. Therefore, in the creative process, he suppressed his admiration and read a lot of Kobe's publications, news and other materials. Besides, he has to work every day, so he can only write at night and even take the subway.
After a whole year of writing, he finally finished the biography of Kobe Bryant, which was immediately published and sold well.
Everyone has a dream, no matter what your dream is, if it is what you really love and like, please try your best to do it, and go all out to do what you want to do. Don't think about what you can get yet. However, when you put your enthusiasm into it and do it without hesitation, you will certainly gain something.
2. learn to break up.
I have an aunt with high blood pressure. She always likes to hoard all kinds of things. Every time I go to her house, I feel suffocated if I stay a little longer. Her high blood pressure can't come down, which has something to do with it. Her family told her to throw away some things. She always said that in case she needed it one day.
Many elderly people have such a common problem that they are reluctant to throw things. It may have something to do with their previous poverty. You always have to fill the house to feel safe.
And some young people like to buy in buy buy. I have also encountered price cuts for a while, and those who have preferential activities can't help but buy them in buy buy; In a bad mood, I can't help shopping online. Always pin your emotions on things.
Later, I saw the parting, so I cleaned up a lot of things. I feel much better. However, I didn't think too much when I cleaned up. Later, I found that some items were still very useful, but they were thrown away by myself, which was very sad.
Therefore, when cleaning up, you should first ask yourself whether this item is what you really want. The essence of our cultivation is not the object, but yourself. While cleaning up, you should also control your desire to buy. When shopping, try to buy high-quality products within your tolerance, and you can treat one as ten. Only in this way can we effectively replace the hoarding of cheap goods.
In the process of screening items, know how to choose, choose the best, and live a simple and exquisite life.
3. Learn to look inward and be simple.
Anyone who has experienced meditation or meditation knows that when we sit still, we will observe that there are always many ideas in our minds. We say, just like the mind is showing a movie, we arrange a series in a very short time. This is really the norm in our lives. It seems that each of us always likes to play various roles in our minds, either as a victim or as a rescuer.
I have an aunt. Every time relatives and friends go to her house, she always likes to tell many sad things to others. When everyone is chatting happily, she will say, alas, who has left? I wish she were here now. Suddenly, everyone's mood was pulled down, and everyone followed her to recall her past; Otherwise, she will pull you to tell you how bitter her past was, how hungry she was, and how angry she was with her mother-in-law. In the end, everyone is reluctant to go to her house, but they still have to prepare to play a bitter drama with her.
It is not difficult to find in life that some people like to complain about others, some like to brag about their talents, and some like to show off their wealth. It seems that everyone likes all kinds of shows, showing love, money, value and even their own pain. In fact, this is all to attract the attention of others and meet the needs of their own sense of security. And this is also a manifestation of my inner emptiness and lack of confidence. Excessive performance of various shows in front of others will also cause resentment of others.
May each of us simply be ourselves and live the life we want.
Reference book: simple, a sharp weapon to deal with complex world