In this materialistic era, the ratio of male to female is seriously unbalanced, and the majority of male compatriots have become single dog, and even the next generation is not spared. How can you practice martial arts at your own expense and want nothing when you see other compatriots "cross swords and win love"? Here, according to my experience, I'd like to introduce some skills to you.
This first impression is very important when we meet for the first time. Needless to say, you should pay attention to your clothes and appearance. But remember not to be unconventional, just dress up as usual. Keep smiling and make the other person feel friendly and willing to associate with you. Remember, if you want to get the contact information, it doesn't matter if you don't arrive. You can get it through your friend profile and let the other person know that you are paying attention to her.
With contact information, chatting is indispensable. However, chatting also needs to master certain skills. Since it is chasing girls, it is natural to talk about topics that girls are interested in. Of course, talking about the other person will be the most direct starting point, provided that you have a certain understanding of your girl through some channels, even if it is a one-sided understanding.
Talk about the other person's hobbies or personality characteristics in the process of chatting, let the other person know that you are paying attention to her, you know her, and vaguely express some level of emotion. The other party gets the message and understands your mind, so naturally they won't neglect you.
Now that the window has been opened, you might as well seize the opportunity, go deeper, express your curiosity, and let the girl take the initiative to tell all her personality and interests, so that you will know more about the person in front of you and have more choices to pursue her. Of course, when getting to know each other, don't forget to tease your own personality characteristics and hobbies, and know how to share them with each other. This is what real couples should do. Although you are not a couple yet, your feelings can warm up first.
The development of a relationship can not be supported by chatting alone, but also needs some practical actions. You can ask her out via QQ or WeChat. With mutual understanding, I believe the other party will be happy to accept your invitation. For example, going for a walk in a nearby park together, that kind of feeling, especially comfortable and flirting, accompanied by the thick moonlight, the two of them paced side by side, ah, it was so dazzling that it really blinded my dog's eyes.
You can also meet and watch a movie, close to the voices of two people. Two people sit together, don't talk, experience this visual feast, and feel the warmth together with their hearts. Ask each other out more if you have time. It is much more comfortable for two people to communicate face to face than through the screen of a mobile phone. You can slowly try to do something interesting, such as traveling, instead of just watching movies and eating.
Falling in love is nothing more than mutual understanding and trust between men and women. With trust, they will naturally have activities together, cultivate their feelings from simple attempts (doing what lovers can do, except hugging and kissing), establish the tone of their feelings, and then start a real love journey. Courageously pursue what you love, I believe you will gain something!