Many people have confidence that they must stay in their emotions, but they just can't accept being separated from the other side. So, I used all available methods to force each other to be with myself again.
In the end, the other person completely withdrew from your daily life and refused all contact with you. It could have saved its contact number and made an appearance. As a result, I added a retention process to myself, which is a bitter word.
Therefore, if you want to stay successful in the complex situation, you must pay full attention to his thoughts and decisions. Only by obeying human nature can you really find his home. How do you actually operate it?
Clearly put forward the type of breakup
Breakups are generally divided into real breakups and fake breakups. If you figure out the type of breakup, you can distinguish your current breakup.
Let's talk about fake breakup first: in terms of mentality, you can feel more significant fluctuations. The other person's mentality is a little intentional, even if he no longer contacts you, he will ask for your information from time to time.
In short, he will often appear in your daily life. What you need to do at this time is to take the initiative to expose and beg for mercy.
Real breakup: psychologically, the other person's mentality is stable and does not contain too many negative emotions. At this stage, everyone belongs to the situation of breaking up. The other party is confident and clearly proposes to break up, and I don't want you to disturb him too much. He didn't notice your situation.
He won't change his mind about you until one day you really get better. So you need to live seriously, regard yourself as a management center, and then contact him when you are more eye-catching, which is conducive to getting back together.
clear solution
Emotional counseling is exposed. At this stage, everyone's situation is obvious. You want to get back together, you are at the bottom, and the person who hangs you belongs to the top. If the substantial relationship between height and height has not changed, then _ you will be taken away by him from beginning to end.
Therefore, the first step is to show your personal charm and establish your style. Of course, your bottom will rise and the relationship between everyone will be balanced.
The next thing to do is to improve your "unavailability". The reason is simple. He will cherish what he didn't get casually.
For example, if he asks you to pass the time when he is bored, you don't have to follow him and often hang him up. On the contrary, it will make your ex-boyfriend feel uncomfortable and then reverse his position.
Clarify each other's feelings
At this point, everyone has returned to the harmonious relationship between the basin friends. Remember that there is no need to take the initiative to mention complexity, and we must first clarify each other's feelings.
You can joke with him and say, "If I still like you, will you consider staying with me again?" Then wait for his answer. If he says yes, you can take this opportunity to get back together and tell him the truth jokingly.
If he refuses you, you can lift the embarrassment and say to him, "I'm kidding." What do you think makes you real? "
Naturally, even if he refuses you, don't be discouraged. Because you have reached his heart, just worried about making mistakes again and again. Thirdly, you can maintain your friendship with him at this stage. With the change between _, he will take the initiative to accompany you.
In fact, keeping a relationship is a matter that pays special attention to countermeasures, opportunities and efficiency. The key is whether you like the way to change the status quo, logical thinking, and even mental state. Only by doing it in a proper way can we succeed again.