Are those strong women in the workplace so vigorous in their lives?

Xiao An is a strong woman and is very popular at work. She works as a director in a sales company with good performance and good customer relationship. She also has some careless characters in her life, and the relationship between male colleagues and female colleagues is relatively harmonious, but now she is divorced.

I live with my five-year-old daughter. With the help of the company, I bought a house by mortgage. It can be said that my life is getting better. I met a man when I was decorating my house. The two men chatted slowly and became friends. About a month later, I confirmed the relationship between men and women.

But with the deepening of their communication, she gradually took charge of the things in men's work. When the money for decoration was not enough, she began to help pay for it, and there were some minor frictions in her life. At this time, a small mistake in her work offended a big customer in Beijing, and the company gave her the cold shoulder. The important work was not entrusted with a heavy responsibility, and the director was replaced by a male colleague of the company. After a period of persistence, she resigned because she could not accept the gap. Not long after she resigned, her relationship ended because of the debt problem with that man.

Later, after some other work, she gradually achieved the position of supervisor. I have to say that she is a person who goes all out to work and love.

Later, I met a person I like. They have nothing to do but show their love in their circle of friends. Friends felt that she finally met two people who wished her well. They lived up to expectations and entered the marriage hall. The wedding was very lively, and many former colleagues and friends attended. However, this vigorous marriage ended after half a year, for the same reason as before. It is said that the man borrowed a lot of money in her name and failed to pay it back, so he divorced again.

Later, friends said that she was heartless. She was such a big person that she never had a good eye for people. When she meets a person who has been cheated once, she contacts a lot one after another, so she has no long memory.

In fact, because she doesn't know the role of life and work clearly, she really needs to go all out at work. This is the advantage of women in the new era. But you should be more feminine in your life, don't put all the burdens of life on yourself, learn to separate your own burdens a little bit, and let a man find his sense of value. Admittedly, there are many love rat now, but you shouldn't turn a person who is not bad into love rat. If you keep running into love rat, it means you have a problem.

Reflect on what kind of person you want to be and what kind of person you want to find. Don't be paralyzed by appearance. You are a big woman to attract a small man, and you are a small woman to attract a big man.