I think as long as most people generally live like that, then this state is normal and I can face myself with peace of mind. I have talked with my colleagues and friends around me, and none of them feel that muddling along like that is a burden to society and a waste of their lives. Well, I think there are four reasons for this bad casualness:
One, you, me, him, all of us are not hardworking, and so are each other. Everyone's behavior affects each other, and no one can tell who it is. The only difference is "pot calling the kettle black". If someone really works hard in work, study and life, or is ridiculed as mentally ill, then he is different from others; Or alienated into an alternative. They think: "It is worthwhile to work hard and study!" , "when such a big leader, three tube so many things have to fuck how much heart? How much effort does it take? I can't enjoy it myself. Not worth it! " .
Elsa has a good life now, so there is no need to work hard. After 20 years of reform and opening up, people's living standards have really improved a lot. After eating and wearing warm clothes, we are moving towards a well-off society. This kind of life without food and clothing, coupled with colorful cultural life, has really made many people live comfortably since childhood. On the contrary, they don't understand those who are not satisfied with the status quo and insist on pursuing higher and more perfect life goals. "It's easy to go to work, no matter what you do, read the newspaper, drink some wine and play mahjong, and then go home and watch TV …" This is the psychology of most people in today's society.
Third, not knowing how to work hard is an important guarantee for success in work and study. There will be no pie in the sky. No matter who or what, if you want to succeed and get a good result, you must work hard to get it. In fact, many people are silently fighting for their own ideals. Edison once vividly said: "Genius is 98% sweat and 2% inspiration". Yang Liwei, a space hero, and the unknown space scientist behind him even paid 1.000% sweat to make Shenzhou 5 successful. In the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games, China athletes won 5 1 gold medals, making China the world's top sports power. When March of the Volunteers played and the five-star red flag was raised, the athletes who won glory for their country were in tears. It is not difficult to guess that every gold medal is full of athletes' painstaking efforts. It's hard to imagine, without the usual efforts, you can still win the card then? Can you fly?
Four people mistakenly believe that hard work will do harm to people's body and mind. Efforts are not ordinary, or beyond the constant of ordinary people. Whether it is work, study or other occupations, as long as it does not exceed the load limit of the human body, it will not affect people's physical and mental health. On the contrary, because of its "drilling", it will also enjoy the pain; Because of its "use in and waste out", it will also enhance the function of some parts of the body. According to the statistics of relevant experts, scientists and artists who have made great efforts at all times and in all countries are mostly healthier and live longer than the average person. According to the online introduction: Recently, the American magazine Epidemiology and Public Health published the latest scientific research results of Harvard University scientists: the higher the IQ of people, the less likely they are to get sick in adulthood. They conducted a 30-year follow-up study on the intelligence and health status of 633 7-year-old children, and found that those children who study hard and have superior intelligence rarely suffer from common diseases such as diabetes, asthma, arthritis, cardiovascular disease and cancer when they grow up.
Marx, the great proletarian revolutionary tutor, established in middle school that he should be engaged in "the occupation that can best work for human welfare". Because of this lofty ideal of life, he studies harder and gets better grades than other students. Later, he was admitted to Bonn University and Berlin University to study law and get a doctorate. Since then, he devoted himself to the revolutionary activities at that time. He studied hard and wrote hard all his life, and it took him forty years to finish his masterpiece Das Kapital. For this reason, his life often falls into poverty, and sometimes he even has no money to buy bread and see a doctor. Fortunately, with the help of his good friend Engels, he was able to complete his great career. He once said: "In science, there is no royal road, and only those who climb along steep mountain roads can hope to reach the peak of glory." Marx is such a model of lifelong efforts.
Tan Qian, a famous scholar in Ming Dynasty, was a poor scholar. At the age of 29, he began to write a history book called "The Lack of Country". He went to Hessa early and worked hard. Once, in order to borrow a document, he walked 100 miles. After 27 years of painstaking efforts, Liu Yi's manuscript was finally completed, but unfortunately, the manuscript was stolen by thieves, and many years of hard work went down the drain. But instead of being discouraged, he started from scratch. At this time, he was 56 years old, and he felt that he was running out of time, so he worked harder than before. After 10 years of writing day and night, I was so tired that my hair turned white, but I finally finished this brilliant historical work again with more detailed and rich materials. Later generations summed up his success because of his strong will and hard work, which is really touching and admirable!
As we all know, Qian Weichang is an internationally renowned scientist and an academician of China Academy of Sciences. Yan Weichang liked liberal arts very much in middle school, but he was afraid of science, especially math and physics. Interestingly, he mainly engaged in the research and teaching of mechanics and applied mathematics all his life, and made many pioneering contributions in these academic fields. He applied tensor analysis and differential geometry to the study of elastic plates and shells for the first time, established a unified theory of thin plates and shells, and put forward a set of nonlinear differential equations of linear shell theory, which is called "Qian Weichang equation" internationally. He also successfully used the system perturbation method to deal with nonlinear equations for the first time, which is still used to deal with this kind of problems internationally. Qian Weichang's great achievement stems from his love for the motherland and his belief in "saving the country through science". When he was admitted to college, Qian Weichang's composition and history papers won the appreciation of professors in the history department and Chinese department, but he only got 5 points in physics when preparing for the exam. So it is difficult to abandon literary theory. At that time, the head of the Department of Physics in Tsinghua University was Professor Wu, a famous physicist. Professor Wu also urged Qian Weichang to study Chinese or history, and told him that China literature and history were also needed by the country. Giving up literary theory is Qian Weichang's wish after repeated thinking, and he will not change it easily. After more than a week of earnest heart-to-heart, Professor Wu agreed that he would study physics for the time being, but for Qian Weichang, whose science foundation in middle school is not very good, it can be said that it is a very harsh condition: he must ensure that his score in physics and calculus is above 70 at the end of the semester, take chemistry as an elective course and strengthen physical exercise. This means that Qian Weichang, who was exhausted at that time, had two afternoons of physics experiments and two afternoons of chemistry experiments every week, as well as extracurricular exercises. Qian Weichang must redouble his efforts to overcome difficulties and meet these requirements, otherwise, he will have to change his department. This semester, in addition to studying regular classes and doing experiments, I have to make up English and some basic mathematics in middle schools. He often studies hard day and night. Professor Wu also gave him a lot of guidance. Where there is a will, there is a way. Qian Weichang passed the physics exam in the first semester, and by the end of the school year, his scores in all subjects had reached more than 70 points, which guaranteed him a guarantee when he entered school. Four years later, Qian Weichang graduated with honors from the Physics Department of Tsinghua University, and then went to study in the United States. It is the ideal of saving the country by science that inspires him to achieve one major scientific achievement after another.
If you don't want to live a mediocre life, then please stay away from the common customs and work harder to create your own beautiful life!