I can't make up my mind to divorce, and I can't bear to divide the property, leaving his elderly mother nowhere to live. What should I do?
Imagine: if you are divorced, what disaster will he encounter one day, will you care about him? If you like, I advise you to die, because; You still can't let go, if you can't let go; If you don't have children, I still advise you to do it, tell your thoughts in detail, let him understand your thoughts and let him do it. If you still can't answer * * *, if you think you have children, this divorce is still going on, because children are the most hurt, I believe you will understand, because you are educated. I sympathize with you, but sympathy is not emotional. Compassion for a person can only bring negative effects to this person, because this person thinks that I am the only person who is the most bitter, innocent and disobedient in the world. That is wrong. A woman's life is very difficult, but a woman's duty is to take care of her husband, educate her children and honor her in-laws. The success or failure of a family depends largely on the housewife. From ancient times to the present, there is a powerful woman behind every generation of kings. According to Buddhist scriptures, women are the treasures of the family. How useful is this woman? After reading what you wrote, I just said that I sympathize with you, but behind my sympathy is my sympathy for you. You take me too seriously in everything you say, because what I did didn't satisfy me, because what I thought didn't make me happy, because what I tried didn't succeed, you take me too seriously, just like a person living in this world values it too much. Therefore, a woman's life is not about how capable you are outside, so you are not a woman. You are a strong woman in today's society. Imagine: does a strong woman have a feminine taste in your heart? Is she still a woman? Therefore, a woman must be a little woman, and then her family will be harmonious and happy. Maybe you said when you were a little woman, but I won't be a little woman, so you are wrong again. Remember that no matter what age China society develops, 5,000 years of culture cannot be erased. It's true, so it's an eternal truth that a woman is filial to her in-laws, and no one can change it. To sum up; No matter how many reasons and feelings you have, divorce is not the solution in the end. Because you didn't find it, you are looking for someone else. It may be over, but it will happen again. You are still in the same pain. So I still want to say here, think twice, think twice.