How to communicate with rebellious children

1. Understand the psychological characteristics of adolescence.

Adolescence is a period of great changes in children's physiology and psychology. Parents must understand their children's psychological characteristics in order to guide them in the right way. Parents can understand their children's psychological characteristics in adolescence by reading books and consulting experts and teachers. With Jin Gangzuan in their hands, they can do a good job in porcelain and education and guidance.

2. Find a person who convinces the child to enlighten him.

We often try our best to say good things, and the reason is reasonable. We thought it would be nice for the child to listen to a word, but the child just wouldn't go in and just wanted to hit you. So what does this mean? In a popular saying-you are not his (her) "dish"! Therefore, it is better to change the dish for the child, invite whoever the child listens to, change the environment and tell him (her) from another angle.

Don't expect too much from your child.

After all, children are children. Compared with adults, they have less experience, naive thinking and low level of understanding. Therefore, don't think that throwing a brick can produce a piece of jade immediately, and this seed can blossom and bear fruit according to your idea. It is a good wish of parents to hope that their children will be born in phoenix, but after all, children's education is a slow job. Adults must be patient with them, and things that are not pleasing to the eye must not be cut. Just like a gardener planting flowers and trees, it is time to feed the children while they are growing up, and wait until the children are gradually mature.

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Zhuojuan education network