I. General information:
Xxx, 16 years old, a secondary school student, is the object of prosecution in the case of the procuratorate.
Second, the main statement
The unchecked section of xxx Procuratorate, in line with all-round assistance to minors, requested assistance in a psychological consultation.
Three. Information observed and learned:
(a) the report of the procuratorate:
The girl wooed friends outside a year ago and had a fight with her classmates. After investigation and coordination by the police station, the case was finally handed over to the procuratorate.
(ii) Consultant's opinion:
Accompanied by his parents, his overall mental state is good. At first he hung his head and refused to speak. Later, the consultant mentioned the Chief X of the Procuratorate and the group counseling half a year ago, and began to open the box.
(3) Parents' report:
? 1, described by mother:
Two children at home, xx, and a younger brother, one year younger than xx. After my brother was born, xx was mainly brought by my grandmother, and I slept with my grandmother since childhood. Later, after living separately from grandma, the children lived on campus and didn't communicate much when they went home on weekends. Generally speaking, the children are not close to me and don't want to say anything to me. His children's experience at school made him feel a little annoyed and wronged, but he was also lucky to meet section chief X. After attending group counseling during the holidays, my children now occasionally call me for video, and they are willing to live at home when they go back on weekends.
2. Dad described:
The child and I are closer than the mother and are willing to tell me anything. However, she has a special personality and is too strong. She wants the other party to listen to her when things happen.
(4) Personal statement:
My mother didn't kiss me, she didn't agree with everything I said, and she hit me, so I told my father one thing. When I was a child, my grandmother used to spoil me, so I didn't want my parents to take care of me when I went home, and I didn't want my school to take care of me when I went to school. After graduating from junior high school, I went to Taiyuan to study and came back in less than a week. Later, I went to the health school, and after a while, I transferred to xx school, and I didn't have a good relationship with my classmates. I stayed at home after fighting with my classmates in xx school at the end of last year 10. I am alone in the village this holiday and don't want to live with my parents. When I started school in September this year, my classmates said that I had changed a lot. I also signed up for Taekwondo outside at the weekend and insisted on studying.
Fourth, the initial impression.
(1) Puberty problem;
(2) Personality needs to be improved.
Cause analysis of verb (abbreviation of verb);
1, physiological reason: adolescent girls
2. Social reasons:
(1) colluded with friends outside the school to participate in fighting;
(2) Family factors, too little communication with parents;
(3) Fighting with friends does not have a good social support system.
? 3. Psychological reasons:
(1) Brought up by my grandmother, I have a strong desire for maternal love but dare not express it;
(2) The birth of my younger brother makes visitors feel that there is sibling competition, but they dare not express it;
(3) extroversion.
Sixth, the formulation of consulting objectives.
1, understand the basic situation of things;
2. Find the root of the matter;
3. Solve the current confusion;
4. Ultimately achieve the purpose of promoting the mental health and personality improvement of the parties.
Seven, develop a counseling plan
1, according to their own situation, take family talk and humanistic support therapy;
2, objective reasons, counseling once;
3. Counseling time: 120 minutes;
4. Consultation fee: free of charge.
Eight, counseling process (omitted)
1, collect data, establish relationships and determine main problems;
When it was cold, a family of three came to the consulting room. First of all, they were warmly received and asked how to go there to drink water, and established a relationship.
I went into the consulting room and chatted with my parents, trying to find out the reason for the school fight. Later, I talked about my childhood growth experience, especially the basic life of my child after my brother was born. Visitors are not very involved in communication.
2. Consultation process:
(1) The specific events in the case are mainly narrated by the mother, with little participation of visitors.
(2) Speaking of holiday group counseling, the visitor didn't want to talk and hug with his mother, and her mother cried at that time. Tourists hang their heads, feel unstable and feel sad.
(3) After the counselor communicates with the visitor, let mom and dad leave first, and the counselor will talk to the visitor alone. I learned that the visitor complained to his mother and felt that he was a younger brother and didn't kiss himself. But when it comes to psychological feelings, tourists feel used to it and a little lost.
(4) By guiding the visitors back to the age of 1, the consultant understands that it is the most correct choice for grandma to take care of her younger brother.
(5) Counselors guide visitors to learn to express their needs and communicate with parents in time;
(6) After the communication, let mother come in. Under the guidance of psychological counselors, visitors open their hearts and express their complaints about their mothers, their understanding of the present and their desire for their mothers' love. Finally, give mom a hug.
(7) Some suggestions are put forward for the improvement of parent-child relationship and personality.
3. End the process
Finally, mom and dad came in together. After expressing their feelings and longing for their mother's love, the visitors obviously relaxed and took photos with the whole family with a smile. Psychological counselors suggest that parents should participate in the family together, especially mothers, pay more attention to their daughters' emotional needs, and enhance their feelings by shopping together and participating in family activities. At the same time, the visitor industry said that it is necessary to study hard, perform well, and study in your favorite field. This consultation has achieved certain results.