Do you want to make trouble with your husband when you find out that you are young? In fact, in the face of great changes in life, short-term madness is human nature, and I am afraid that no one can stand such a blow. However, in the long run, we still have to consider how to solve the current problems.
If the wife keeps quarreling with her husband, it is equivalent to pushing her husband further and further. When there is a third party in the marriage relationship between two people, the wife will definitely scold San Xiao for being shameless. If she scolds her husband for ingratitude again, it will be tantamount to isolating herself and putting San Xiao and her husband in the same category, which is not conducive to saving the marriage.
I once asked a helper: after your husband cheated, you kept cursing at home every day. What do you want to express?
The helper thought about it and replied, in fact, I just want my husband to know how painful and sad I am. I want him to comfort me.
The normal psychology of people when they are hurt is an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. Whoever hurts me, I will hurt him. Unfortunately, this kind of psychology is wrong in marriage. After all, the other person is the person you love, and you hurt the other person, but the inner wound will not heal.
More importantly, your inner wounds still need to be treated by the people who hurt you, and you also need the people you hurt to care for you and take care of you. However, it is extremely difficult for a person who has been hurt by you to deal with his inner pain first.
Since the discovery of mistress, do you want to quarrel with your husband? On this issue, we can see that there are many psychological misunderstandings in saving marriage, especially if the wife can't control her emotions, it is easy to do things that she will regret for life. Even if the wife knows all the means or skills of recovery, when there is a problem, the wife may still lose her mind and make the wrong behavior.