(1) Xiaohong's troubles are caused by psychological contradictions in adolescence. In adolescence, teenagers are eager for spiritual and personality independence, hoping to get rid of their dependence on their parents, but they can't get rid of their dependence on their parents, and they still need material help from their parents. This contradiction between longing for independence and realistic dependence is easy to cause psychological confusion to teenagers. Therefore, these psychological contradictions in adolescence are normal psychological phenomena during our growth.
(2) In life, when encountering psychological troubles, they will seek help from teachers, parents, relatives and friends, and society; Besides, I will be my own "psychologist". For example, when you are in a bad mood, listen to music or play ball games to transfer your bad mood; When you feel lonely, chat with your classmates and write letters to your friends.