However, it was later discovered that marriage was bound by the interests of two families in addition to love and mutual sincerity.
Everyone is selfish, wants to get what they want in this marriage, and finally tears their faces.
Xiaofeng (a pseudonym) and his wife Xiao Xia (a pseudonym) met on a blind date. They talked about love for half a year and got married under the arrangement of their parents.
Of course, Xiaofeng's parents also paid their life savings and gave their in-laws a large bride price, which fulfilled their son's happiness.
After getting married, Xiaofeng bought a minivan. Xiaofeng drives a van with his father to sell fruit every day, while his wife Xiao Xia takes care of the family at home.
Although it is not the house of the richest man, the family's life is calm and happy, but recently, because of one thing, the calm life of Xiaofeng's family has been broken.
His wife, Xiao Xia's younger brother, wants to get married, but she wants to buy a house. At the pleading of his parents, Xiao Xia decided to give his younger brother 654.38+10,000 yuan.
Xiao Xia agreed easily here, but Xiao Feng couldn't stand it. After a few years of marriage, they saved a little more than100000.
If the wife gives her brother 6,543,800 yuan, it will be a disaster for their small family. Xiaofeng was going to hide the passbook at home, but in the end it was too late.
Xiaofeng found his wife angrily, but her wife seemed to be innocent. Instead, he said, "My brother got married and bought a house, so he let you take 65,438+10,000. Is it worth being angry with me? "
Xiao Feng, who was already very angry, was completely ignited by his wife's words. He angrily yelled at Xiao Xia: "I am just a brother-in-law, and I have no obligation to buy a house for my brother-in-law."
However, Xiao Xia said that love and obligation are two different things. If you love a woman, you must know how to love me, love my dog. My brother is not willing to give money when he gets married and buys a house. What do you mean you love me?
My parents have raised me for more than 20 years, and how much effort my parents have devoted. Do you think that a little bride price can completely buy me out?
I've been such a brother since I was a child. I don't care who gets married and buys a house. If it weren't for taking care of my family, I would have made money. How can you be so selfish?
Being refuted by his wife, Xiaofeng's momentum softened, and he even agreed with his wife's behavior of helping his brother. He had to whisper softly, "You should consider our economic situation."
See her husband still dare to refute, Xiao Xia said directly, since her husband can't control himself, or go back to her family, so as not to hinder people's eyes here.
Seeing his wife packing up and leaving, Xiaofeng had to sigh helplessly. Anyway, the money has been given, so why get married again if you want it back?
Husband and wife need mutual tolerance and understanding, everyone needs respect, and husband and wife need respect more.
The wife took the initiative to directly give 654.38+ million to her younger brother. It can be said that she exhausted all the savings in her family, and her family also had a good reputation. What should they do with their small family?
What is more sad is that Xiaofeng slowly accepted his wife's behavior after quarreling with her again. It was his concession and connivance that made this marriage more and more deformed.
You can buy a house for 65,438+10,000 yuan in a few days, and there are other reasons to take money tomorrow. Some holes cannot be filled, and people's greed is endless.
Lack of communication between husband and wife, expressing opinions is easy to be forgiven, which has laid a huge hidden danger for temporary peace.
In fact, many couples' initial contradictions are caused by poor communication. If two people had worked hard, it might have been another ending.