Looking for spring in summer: the dialogue between Miaoge and Mingjie in episode 18

Ming Jie: You should prepare for the best and prepare for the worst. You are a strong girl.

Wonderful song: strong? I watched a TV program, two girls were chatting, and then a girl told her that there are two kinds of women, one is happy and the other is strong. Then the girl asked her why. She said to be a happy woman, that is, my parents hurt when I was a child and my husband hurt when I grew up, so I don't need to be strong. Strong people must be strong. Then the girl asked her, which one do you choose? She said that my friendship with God is not very good, so I have no choice but to be strong.

Mingjie: Actually, strength and happiness are not contradictory. Waiting for happiness is probably the most reliable.