Cities are different from rural areas. By the 1990s, urban families were basically only children, all of whom were the apple of their parents' eyes, especially some girls, who had never experienced any twists and turns and were naive in looking at the problem. Even if these urban women are from ordinary families, they can't surpass the Phoenix men who came to the city from the countryside for the time being.
Therefore, the only daughter in some cities is easily targeted by Phoenix men with many brothers. They set their goal on the only child, for the simple reason that they can struggle less for many years. In the future, urban women's property will be their own, and they may even drive their families of origin.
Their abacus is very clever. Where are the city girls? Most of them are spoiled by their families since childhood, most of them are simple, and sometimes they are easily moved by the "excellent" quality of Phoenix Man, and then they become their "dishes".
Can the city girl in our story escape today?
0 1 Zhang Qiang has lived in the countryside since childhood and has three brothers, one younger brother and one older brother. Being from a poor family, he studied very hard. Due to diligence and progress, Zhang Qiang was admitted to a university in Shanghai. Born in poverty, after coming to Shanghai, he began to set goals for himself.
We must establish ourselves in this big city. However, after graduating from college, he repeatedly hit a wall. Before he got a job, his classmates got a job and got married. This surprised Zhang Qiang. He asked his classmates, "Did you win the lottery? How did you get married so soon? Where did you get the money? "
"You don't know my situation. My family is poorer than you, but I met a very good girlfriend. Her family is from Shanghai, and she is an only child. My father-in-law didn't ask me for the bride price money at all, but also bought us a suite and a car. "
Hearing students say so, Zhang Qiang's eyes lit up in an instant. It turns out that this classmate took such a shortcut, so he is also eager to try.
After finding a job, Zhang Qiang put the goal of finding a girlfriend only on the local only daughter. Although his income is average, in order to better attract local girls in Shanghai, Zhang Qiang overdrawn his credit card and bought himself a brand-name suit.
Then, he will meet some local people whenever he has the chance. Then ask them to help introduce the locals. On this day, a colleague introduced Zhang Qiang to a local girl in Shanghai. The night the blind date came back, he told his colleagues that it was not appropriate. Colleagues don't understand: you don't agree with such a good girl? You want to find a fairy? "
Zhang Qiang refused because of his incompatible personality. Actually, it's not a matter of personality, but after the chat, Zhang Qiang found that although the other party is a local, he has a brother. Zhang Qiang thought that her family's money would be her brother's in the future, and there could be no garage. Zhang Qiang won't get much money even if he marries this girl.
In fact, Zhang Jiangyou has his own clear goals. He only wants to find an only daughter with a good family background, and he also needs to meet three conditions: having a car, a house and a Shanghai hukou must be provided by the woman. He won't agree to anything less. Later, Zhang Qiang found several objects in succession, but none of them met Zhang Qiang's requirements.
On this day, Zhang Qiang met a local girl Liu Jia through a friend's introduction. After talking, he learned that the other party is an only child and both parents are dual employees. My father is also a small leader of a foreign company, which is Zhang Qiang's goal.
With the goal, Zhang Qiang began to pursue Liu Jia. In order to please Liu Jia, Zhang Qiang often scrimps and saves money to order flowers for Liu Jia. Or buy her some small gifts.
After pursuing for a period of time, Liu Jia seems to have been lukewarm to him. Seeing that he also spent a lot of money, but still didn't get the accurate commitment from the other party, Zhang Qiang was a little worried.
On this day, he asked the classmate who married the city girl again and said, "I spent too much money on her, but she has always been lukewarm to me." How did you get your wife in the first place? Please teach me quickly. "
"I didn't chase her, she chased me. Maybe she's looking at my pity. As you know, tuition is a loan. After we met, she often gave me things. Maybe all girls are compassionate. That's why she often helps me, and then she has more contact time and is together. "
After listening to what the classmates said, Zhang Qiang instantly felt very reasonable. Girls are full of sympathy. The best hunter is to turn himself into prey.
So Zhang Qiang began to stage "risks".
On this day, he deliberately said to Liu Jia, "I can't buy you flowers these days. My brother is in high school this year, and I gave him all my money for cram school. Although I like you very much, I am short of money now, and I will continue to buy it for you when I have money. "
Then, on that night, Zhang Qiang made a phone call to Liu Jia: "Liu Jia, I am very busy recently, so I can't accompany you to dinner. Please take care of yourself. My brother's school is going to charge tuition. He needs some money, but his parents have no money, so I have to raise some money.
Hearing this, Liu Jia immediately transferred him three thousand dollars. Zhang Qiang didn't ask, just gave her an embarrassed expression, and then stopped contacting her.
In fact, Zhang Qiang's younger brother didn't pay tuition. My brother's tuition has always been the responsibility of his parents. Zhang Qiang did this mainly to set up a person in charge.
Zhang Qiang, these two actions really work. Liu Jia took the initiative to contact him.
At this time, Zhang Qiang told Liu Jia about his family and said frankly, "I won't chase you in the future. I know I don't deserve you. I don't even have a Shanghai hukou. I'm going to make money for my brother to go to school first, and then I'll talk about marriage. The big deal is to go back to my hometown and find a rural girl to live for two years. " Girls in rural areas won't ask me to buy a house. "
Liu Jia heard Zhang Qiang say so, and his feelings for Zhang Qiang deepened. She thinks that Zhang Qiang is a person who is responsible for his family. Liu Jia said, "Actually, I am an only child. I already have two houses at home. I just want to find a reliable one. "
After listening to all this, Zhang Qiang made a merry heart, but he still held back his inner excitement and said calmly:
"I hope you can find a person who matches your economy and follow me. You will suffer. " After saying this sentence, Zhang Qiang squeezed out two tears, which made Liu Jia even more moved.
After that, the two quickly determined the relationship and then began to talk about marriage. Zhang Qiang also began to often take Liu Jia out to play. When the money runs out, he will ask his parents for some.
On this day, Zhang Qiang took Liu Jia to the class reunion, but Liu Jia overheard Zhang Qiang's conversation in the bathroom.
One student said to another, "Look, Zhang Qiang is a ghost. According to his classmates, he used many means to find this girl. Girls think he is an independent and responsible Phoenix man, but he is really stupid. It is said that up to now, he often asks his parents in the countryside for money because he spent a lot of money chasing this woman, but that woman never knew that Zhang Qiang was still old. "
Hearing this conversation, Liu Jia suddenly fell into the abyss. It turns out that what Zhang Qiang is in charge of is actually a lie.
That evening, Liu Jia and Zhang Qiang broke up. Zhang Qiang found Liu Jia, and under Zhang Qiang's repeated questioning, Liu Jia spoke the reason. Zhang Qiang retorted that all this was false.
At this moment, Liu Jia said, "Why don't you call your parents in front of me? As long as you can prove that you didn't ask for money from home, I will believe you. " Looking at Zhang Qiang, he never called again. Liu Jia trusts his classmates more.
In this way, two people broke up. Zhang Qiang is very upset. In fact, he is even more distressed that he spent a lot of money in pursuit of Liu Jia. After breaking up, Zhang Qiang began to look for a target again, wondering who the next target would be.
Mei Niang says it's getting harder and harder to fall in love now. I heard yesterday that a girl had a good talk with a young man, but suddenly they broke up. It doesn't make much sense, but I heard that the girl's father abdicated, and the young man quickly took aim at the daughter of another leader.
Nowadays, young people really take the utility of marriage to the extreme. It seems that money and background can determine all happiness. In fact, it seems a bit overdone to say that love has something to do with money and background, but it doesn't matter, it really doesn't matter. And the higher the purity of love, the less money and background, but many people don't know until divorce, but it's too late.
In fact, we can understand everyone's desire for a better life, but we still hope that there will be love in the marriage that everyone wants to enter. Without love, there is no tolerance, no love, no warmth and no warmth. Can such a day continue? Needless to say, after marriage, you will experience some storms, which is the rhythm of breaking up in minutes.
Zhang Qiang entered the marriage with a strong utilitarian heart. Even if he really cheated the pure and kind Liu Jia, he will be found out sooner or later. At that time, the wedding car was also Liu Jia's name. After the divorce, he didn't get a piece of it. Isn't it just like falling to death with nothing?
So people should be simple and sincere, especially for marriage. Kindness is not necessarily happiness, so that you can find your true love and you will not suffer in the end.
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