What is the custom of visiting parents in Shanxi?

Shanxi people are very honest. If it's a man, ask his girlfriend's father whether he smokes or drinks or both. If he has two cigarettes and two bottles of wine, if he just smokes or drinks, he will bring one, not low-grade, but not too high-grade. Almost enough. Fruit snacks are dispensable. Take it easy. We Shanxi people are hospitable.

If you are a woman, buy some fruit snacks. Generally speaking, we women don't bring anything when we meet our parents for the first time, but now times are different, and it's not appropriate to go empty-handed. We don't have such a thing as a gift, so the man's parents will accept it for you, and don't say anything without giving it to you. Because we don't have this local custom here, it is a custom to greet red envelopes in the south. We usually keep women for dinner, and girls usually help us cook after we finish eating.