Are extroverted children more promising than introverted children?

Some people always like to use this labeled classification method to judge children, and classify extroverted children as a group of people who are easy to succeed, and introverted children have become a neglected group. In fact, extroversion and extroversion are just a pair of words to describe a child's personality characteristics, which has nothing to do with whether the child will have a good future. Every child with personality will create his own life through his own efforts and his own advantages. This paradox is a bit like "who drinks coffee or eats garlic is more elegant than who".

Outgoing children have the advantages of being lively, cheerful, eloquent and good at communication. They are often more likely to become the focus of people's attention and naturally bear more pressure and expectations from the outside world. However, introverted children are quiet, steady, thoughtful and introverted, which is not a problem. It's just a descriptive word, without praise or criticism.

For introverted children, quietness and loneliness are their way of life. We can't force the child to change his original appearance, we need parents to follow the rhythm of the child and see his original appearance. If an introverted child is always corrected by his parents in the process of growing up, he will feel inferior to his own personality and decide that he can do nothing and can't do anything well.

What parents can do is not to stare at the seemingly negative side of their children, but to explore the positive side of introverted children's personality as much as possible, and encourage them to carry forward, enhance their self-confidence and improve their sense of self-worth. If you stare at their 20% advantages and encourage them, the shortcomings and shortcomings that children originally thought will be found to be 80% advantages; On the contrary, if you spend 80% of your energy to find 20% of your child's shortcomings, your child's shortcomings will be infinitely magnified. Parents need to relax. Whether you have an introverted or extroverted child, she is the best child. Recently, there is a book about the potential advantages of introverted children, which parents can buy to help you look at their personality advantages objectively.