The main reason why middle school students oppose puppy love now is that it is not conducive to study and success. This is a complete fallacy. Whoever opposes puppy love wants to eat people! Education in China is a very cruel system. It keeps talking about reducing the burden, but in fact the burden on students is getting heavier and heavier. I have been there before, and I am very close to death. I want to thank puppy love for saving my life! It is because of puppy love that middle school students in China didn't commit suicide by jumping off a building. You may say that many middle school students have not fallen in love, but they have not committed suicide. Here you ignore another way of love, namely unrequited love or unrequited love. Although they didn't express their love, it was still love, so it also had a certain love effect. Under the strong examination pressure, each of them looks so thin and lonely, and their young hearts are being ravaged by education. They need to fall in love, which relieves their pain and makes them have great power in the intercourse of yin and yang, comforting and helping each other, and finally defeating the devil of the college entrance examination and entering the hall of the university. Puppy love is really indispensable!
If you want to succeed in the fierce modern competitive society, you need not only IQ, but also EQ, and the EQ of those who fall in love early is definitely higher than that of those who fall in love after graduating from high school. Because most families are only children now, they often lack the ability to communicate with others, which is very unfavorable for them to enter the society in the future. And a puppy love person, he learned to understand, tolerate and care in getting along with his lover, and gained communication skills. He will be precocious. He must be a popular talent after entering the society, and he will certainly achieve something in his career, so I say that puppy love makes a man grow into a man.
A frank conversation between two men: the love of a boy of 16 years old.
A 16 senior one boy is excellent in all aspects and seriously falls in love with a girl in his class. The boy's father and son had a conversation between two men.
Father: Son, do you think she is the best girl?
Zi: I think she is the cutest girl I know.
Father: Dad trusts your vision. However, you are only a freshman. How many girls do you know?
Zi: I only have her in my heart.
Father: You said you wanted to go to college and study abroad in the future. You want to be a lawyer or a financier. Do you know how many good girls you will meet in the future? Dad doesn't object to your talking about your girlfriend now, but what dad hates most is changing his mind. This girlfriend is the best girl you know so far, but you will have more opportunities in the future. Then what should you do? Will you regret it?
Son: But it pains me to leave her now.
Father: What about the walkman you bought in the third grade?
Son: Two days ago, you bought me an advanced one. I thought the sound quality was better than the original, so I gave it to others.
Father: It's called one mountain high and one mountain low. If you seize every opportunity that belongs to you, your future achievements will only be greater than today, the world you face will only be broader than today, and your choices will only be better and more suitable for you. If you really have that kind of relationship with this girl now, just let it blossom and bear fruit. Son, it's impossible for a person not to do something that he regrets for the rest of his life, but there are only a few important events in life. If he regrets it, he will regret it all his life.
Son: Dad, I see. ...
From then on, the boy buried his special feelings for the girl like a seed, but the music of life was played more happily. He knows that even if the seeds of love germinate, they have not grown into towering trees, let alone bear sweet fruits. Before that, I can only be a farmer who works silently and waits for the crops to mature.
The boy is undoubtedly lucky. First of all, there is trust between father and son-friends trust, and the boy dares to tell his father the secret hidden in his heart; Secondly, after dad knew it, he didn't reprimand him, nor did he have a condescending "education". Instead, I talked about my love for my son, which was understandable, inspiring and suggestive, and finally convinced my son.
Every child in Seeds of Love will inevitably encounter emotional problems, but not every child is lucky enough to communicate with his parents and friends.
Who says falling in love will affect your study?
First, British scientists have proved that love can promote people's learning, because people's brains are very excited when they are in love, so it is easy to learn things.
Second, eight of our classmates 10 before senior three fell in love again.
Third, love in middle school is always simpler than in college.
Fourth, it is a great pity that middle school students don't fall in love.
To sum up, middle school should fall in love.
mature
instil a sense of responsibility
Encourage each other to learn and progress.
Can point out each other's shortcomings more deeply
Parents educate their children through experience.
Avoid the rebellious period.
An objective attitude that limits one's view of things.
1, which can make boys and girls grow into men and women quickly.
2. Release excess energy.
3. Leave good memories.
4. Promote consumption and stimulate domestic demand.
5. Break the sense of shyness between men and women. More contact will help to improve the standard of mate selection in the future.
6. Tell parents that it is not the way to avoid talking about emotional knowledge.
7. Improve IQ. Improve emotional intelligence.
8. With luck, two childhood friends will live together again in the future, and the relationship between husband and wife will be more stable than that between couples who get married after work.
1. Learn social experience in advance
2. Learn to face life in advance.
Learn what true love is in advance, and you won't be cheated in society in the future.
If possible, everyone should complement each other, help each other and promote each other in their studies ~'
For our innocent age, it is impossible for a complicated adult society to treat our love with the most sincere heart.
6. Compared with the old society, you can meet more people and have more choices when choosing a spouse in the future.
If the other person studies well, he will have the motivation to learn.
Poor study will satisfy vanity.
If the other person is gentle, he can help you solve the problem.
If the other person is savage, you can learn to care.
If your relationship can last, it shows that you have perseverance.
If not, then at least you have learned self-control.
You can find someone to talk to when you are sad, someone to give you strength when you fail, someone to help you when you fall, someone to celebrate when you win, someone to be your most rational guide when you lose your mind, someone to try to make you happy when you are unhappy, and someone to be your strongest backing when you are afraid of shrinking back. When you can't tell your same-sex friends or your parents, you can talk to someone. When you are in trouble, someone can stand in front of you, but when you are most frustrated, you can have a generous shoulder to lean on. Valentine's Day is coming, and some people are still worried about what gift to prepare for you. When all same-sex friends betray you, there are still people who trust you and trust you as before. If you are really nice, you can also be the happiest couple in the eyes of others, so that others will envy you to death and those who don't want you to live a good life will be angry. You should be happy to stand in front of them.
In short, when you are lonely, no one will make you lonely. ...
) You can get gifts for free on Valentine's Day ~ ~ ~
2) Someone can order it ~
3) The mind has sustenance,
4) In order to make her happy, let her have the motivation to study better.
5) Someone will comfort you when you are unhappy.
6) failure is comforted
7) Success is shared.
Puppy love makes me more mature.
Puppy love makes me more considerate.
Puppy love makes us both very happy.
Puppy love enriches our lives.
Puppy love makes us thoroughly understand love.
Puppy love gives us more courage to face difficulties.
8) Cultivate a sense of responsibility, help each other with your heart and make progress together.
9) Puppy love is nothing, as long as we can control it ourselves.
shortcomings
1. It takes a lot of time and easily affects learning. If there is an emotional crisis between the two sides, it is easy to cause deep harm to both sides. 2. Lack of understanding of love. 3. The other person may not be suitable for you, but you may meet someone who is more suitable for you in the future. Without a clear concept of love, you don't know how to plan the future. You can't be together when you grow up. One party may like the other. 5. Love needs money. And we are consumers ourselves. 6. Love is not to follow the crowd, not to show off. 7. Young people are impulsive. If they can't promise, they won't do anything stupid. 8. Love is understanding, love is tolerance, and love is mutual respect. Many puppy lovers don't understand it and are prone to emotional problems.
Generally speaking, it depends on yourself.