Joking uncle quickly make up. First, he stopped an aunt who tried to explain. Then the cake was served, and Xiao Xiaoxin smiled and put cream on his face twice. He also showed his little face happily and asked Xiaoxin, "Is it nice?" Haha, have fun. "Everyone laughed, and Xiao also smiled. Mom said, "Uncle plays with you, and no one laughs at you, and no one laughs at him. "A small storm passed smoothly. Uncle's timely remedy avoided leaving a shadow on the child's young psychology.
In addition to the above, I have experienced other ways to "tease" children these days. For example, when I went to my husband's colleague's house, I saw a three-year-old boy, Hu Bo, carrying many toys. A guest joked, "You have so many cars, give me one." Without saying a word, Hu Bo stood beside her mother and looked at the guest warily. Hu Bo's father said smoothly, "Give one to your uncle. Don't be so stingy." I quickly interrupted him: "This belongs to Hu Bo, and Hu Bo can't give it. This is not stingy. "
There are many festivals coming: Teacher's Day, Mid-Autumn Festival, National Day ... There will be gatherings of relatives and friends during the festival, but at least pay attention to:
Try to recall, you can find that many people still have some unpleasant childhood events in their memories. For example, my father snatched a cicada he caught and threw it on the roof, my mother cursed herself with the word "death", and I was bullied by a boy and the teacher stood by ... enough to show that I was hurt because of it, which would subtly affect interpersonal relationships.
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Then, when you don't understand your child's personality characteristics, which jokes should be opened as little as possible? For example, don't take your child's own things casually, and don't ask your child for something to test whether the child is "generous", especially what the child likes; Don't laugh at children's physical characteristics, such as big head, special hairstyle and missing teeth; Don't let the children approach by threatening, "call aunt, call, or I'll take your car", "come, call uncle, or uncle will arrest you" and then act fierce; Don't deliberately tease, let the children "make a fool of themselves" and then "see a joke", especially in crowded places. ...
★ It is better to teach children by example than by example. For example, "You can't just ask others for something", everyone will tell them so; However, if an adult "teases" a child and asks for his toy car, but his father criticizes him for being "stingy", the child's thinking will be confused. Or find that adults can take other people's things! Children's behavior is learned, and adults must pay attention to their words and deeds when children are present.
★ Parents should have the ability to protect their children. China people pay attention to face. Even if they think it is inappropriate for their friends to "tease" their children, they are embarrassed to stop them. It is the child's heart that is sacrificed. Remind parents to gently stop "teasing" their children's relatives and friends. I'm really embarrassed to distract them or find a reason to take the child away. For example, Hu Bo's father can say to his colleagues, "Don't tease him, he doesn't know what a joke is." Or say to Hu Bo, "These cars are all from Hu Bo. You can give them to your uncle or not. Look at you. " When children show bad emotions, they must be remedied in time. Unsuspecting parents should politely ask their children why they are unhappy, listen to their children lose their temper, and then try to solve them. Sometimes the setting of a scene is better than the explanation of language. For example, the uncle's approach to Xiaokexin mentioned above is ingenious and effective. Sometimes children don't want to talk, and parents don't have to. They just said, "well, this is your secret, you don't have to tell it;" Tell me when you want to say it. "