The main problem of boys' blind date is that we all need some communication in the process of getting along, which is also a way to enhance each other's love and a bridge of communication, which is very particular. The following is to introduce the main problems of boys' blind date.
Main items of boy blind date 1 1. Boys blind date skills.
1, don't dress up. In fact, if it is a boy, it is better to be clean and fresh. Overdressing will give each other a feeling of being unreliable.
2, don't brag, in fact, many times boys will say some big words to make each other worship themselves, but in fact, modern people are smart, you can see it when you praise each other.
3. The date place does not need to be too expensive, but it should not be too off the table, such as a clean, quiet and slightly literary place.
Don't talk about the past. Nowadays, many boys will talk about how I was when I was a child and how I studied when I was dating. In fact, the other party is generally not interested.
5, take the initiative to send each other home, a boy should be a gentleman, after dinner or finished, take the initiative to send girls home, can get more goodwill.
Second, the boys blind date matters needing attention
1, you'd better go alone.
Because girls are shy, it is ok to bring their families, but it is not good for boys to have a little treasure.
2, pay attention to all kinds of small details
Arrive early, the other party should stand up to show respect, don't be masculine, give priority to women when ordering, and don't make any comments on anything.
3. Don't wear strange clothes
It's best to wear it plain and quiet, not too fancy, such as tights and bean shoes. Don't wear it, otherwise it will directly become a spiritual guy, without intention, but it must be serious, and the hairstyle should not be too dressed, just simple and refreshing.
Main items of blind date for boys 2 1. As a man, you should generally take the initiative and don't let the other person take the initiative to ask you out. When you ask her, you should ask if you are free, if you are willing to meet, and if the meeting place is satisfactory. If the other person is not free, then don't be depressed, don't be left out in the cold, and don't comfort her in turn this time.
2, boys don't wear strange clothes on blind date, there are many colors, try to be simple, the texture must be good, and it must be neat and clean. It's best to wear the kind of clothes that aunt and boy have agreed on, and choose the right clothes according to the itinerary. When you go out to play, just dress casually and meet formally.
3. The dating place doesn't need to be too expensive, but it shouldn't be too off the table, such as a clean, quiet and slightly literary place.
4. Remember that women are always right. Even if she is wrong and you happen to be stubborn, don't cheat her. In short, let a woman think that you are doing her good, and then let her accept your advice, instead of proving her wrong. The simpler the better.
5. After all, it's the first time we meet, and we can't ask each other too sensitive and personal topics. If you ask this question, it will make it difficult for the other party to talk about it and make the other party resent you. So when choosing a topic, try to choose some topics that everyone is interested in, especially those that can interest the woman. For example, talk about travel experiences, interesting things about school and work. No matter what you talk about, the most important thing is that when the other person is talking, don't interrupt, wait until the other person has finished speaking before expressing his opinion.
6, take the initiative to find a topic after meeting, because it is the first time to meet, do not know each other, so it is difficult to open the original topic. As a man, you can't be cold, take the initiative to find a topic to chat with each other, and slowly, there will be the same topic.
7. In the process of dating, don't neglect each other by answering the phone or chatting with friends. If it is an emergency call, explain it to the other party in advance. Don't keep the other person waiting too long. Don't answer unimportant calls. Call her back when she goes to the bathroom. If you meet a friend, introduce her to friends and chat together.
8. Girls only care about details. Just give something away, but it depends on the financial conditions of the girl's family. Giving something that makes her feel a little expensive, but not too expensive, will increase the girl's financial burden. You should let her know that you love her, not with money. Actually, this is all bullshit. Never give anything cheap unless you are handsome.
9. Take the initiative to send the other party home. A boy should be a gentleman. After dinner or over, take the initiative to send the girl home and get more goodwill.
The main items of boy blind date 3 1. What should boys pay attention to when they go on blind date?
1, dress appropriately
On the first blind date, boys should pay attention to their appearance, take a shower, cut their hair and put on appropriate clothes. When people are confident, their spiritual temperament will be different and they will leave a good impression on each other.
Step 2 behave appropriately
A girl cares about details, such as eating in a restaurant, helping her pull a chair, asking her to order or asking her more about her taste when ordering. These behaviors are reflected in every detail of life and can leave a good impression on each other.
3, chat topics should be relaxed
When we meet for the first time, in fact, two people don't have too many topics to chat freely from the beginning, so boys must take the initiative, don't look too old-fashioned, make people feel like running away, talk more about relaxed and pleasant topics, start with girls' hobbies and talk more about women's sexy interests.
4. The topic of discussion should not be private and sensitive.
Don't discuss too sensitive and personal topics without knowing each other. Don't ask each other about their past emotional state, and don't discuss sensitive topics such as religion without knowing each other, so as to avoid the embarrassing situation of what they hate and what the other person likes.
Second, the details that boys should pay attention to on blind date
1, little tricks appear
You don't realize these little tricks. You usually get used to them, but the consequences will be serious. Don't change your sitting posture frequently when dating, don't shake your legs, shake your head and look around. These little moves are very easy to arouse others' disgust. Boys always fail in blind date, because boys make girls look immature and too many small moves give each other a bad impression. The first impression should be calm. After all, it is a blind date, and the age is naturally not small.
Step 2 act natural
Don't be nervous, just like facing an ordinary friend. The more nervous, the easier it is to make a fool of yourself. Speak naturally, listen more, and try to extract more information from the other person's less language, such as whether the other person likes you or not, and whether the other person is slow or introverted. Self-confidence is the most important thing. Many girls like confident boys, even if they have no car or house, their hearts are not empty.
Step 3 dress
Not long ago, there was a news that a man wore a pair of special shoes to go on a blind date and was hacked. Dressing is really important. Dress doesn't need to be too formal, you can be a little casual, don't wear fancy clothes, it's best to be clean and tidy. In fact, in this world of looking at appearance, we should pay more attention to our clothes and appearance and give ourselves extra points.
Third, matters needing attention in blind date
1, don't "audit" as soon as you come up.
A person's basic situation is stereotyped and can't be changed anyway. You'll know sooner or later anyway. There is no need to ask in a hurry. It will only disgust people and seriously destroy the chat atmosphere between two people. When the topic of "audit" is asked at the end, it will definitely usher in a very embarrassing chat atmosphere.
Deliberately avoiding asking about the basic situation will make the other person unable to hold back first, have a strong curiosity about you, and try to talk about interesting content and relaxed content.
2. Give the other person a chance to speak.
The weakness of human nature says:
"Talking is like passing a ball and catching it. It's never a one-way pass. If one of them misses the ball, there will be awkward silence until someone picks it up again and continues to pass the ball, and everything can return to normal. "
So don't just talk to yourself, try to let the other person talk more and don't interrupt, because after being interrupted by you, you will lose your previous enthusiasm and interest and the atmosphere will be destroyed.
Whether the other person likes it or not, just say what he wants to say, and don't give the other person a chance to speak. This is a big no-no.
3. Avoid arguments as much as possible.
If you don't agree with each other's views or can't understand each other's hobbies when chatting, don't argue. People are different and have certain differences, including differences in ideas, emotions and hobbies. Even if you can't accept it, learn to respect it.
You know, we can never change another person, and the result can only be a bad breakup.