This is the rise of the bottom ~
I'm Toure ~
Through people, through yourself ~
"I was born a man, I'm sorry." "I never bother others in the spring, summer, autumn and winter that a person can spend."
I have been thinking about how to comfort 2020.
I thought about it for a long time, but it still didn't work out.
I don't know if you have ever encountered such a situation in your life. We just live very hard and persist, but occasionally we can't sleep like we are out of control. Even if you work hard, you will still be awake and sad.
Eat alone, sleep alone, live a good life, go to work alone, get off work alone, digest the criticism of leaders alone, and walk alone through the road without street lights in the morning.
In 2020, most of us find ourselves doing a lot of things alone in this year.
But the saddest thing is that when you are ready, you feel sad or like a cold, but you are still caught off guard.
A person's time is always not easy to spend.
My friend Xiao Yang will contact everyone around him. As a girl, ODA can only dress up beautifully and then go shopping, never eating hot pot.
Lonely people seem to have various ways to calm their sadness.
I also cherish my space.
A 23-year-old girl just graduated and works in a new first-tier city like Xi 'an. In addition to solving her own difficulties, she also tried her best to deal with all the people around her, because when she graduated, her first master told her, "People are the most difficult to serve, and sometimes don't lose your temper with anyone."
The simple girl listened to the proverbs of her predecessors. But in fact? In order to please everyone, you must tolerate everyone. For a teenage girl, it is too difficult to dim her sense of existence when others are shining.
2020 is very difficult for her. Because I owe my boyfriend 2000 yuan as a birthday present, it may be this simple love that keeps her headache for this 2000 yuan.
Occasionally, she works overtime until everyone gets off work. It was eleven o'clock when I got home. In order to take care of her stomach, she had to cook by herself. But the roommate didn't take care of the girl at all. Halfway through a meal, she can only choose instant noodles.
After eating instant noodles, she telephoned her boyfriend, who was full of perfunctory thoughts. Get some sleep as usual.
She cried all night. The next day, she went to work and lived as if nothing had happened.
A friend I met in Shanghai before sent a circle of friends to say that they broke up on Christmas Eve.
It seems that life is like this. Some people have it, some people lose it, just like the stars in the sky will light up in the dark.
The reason turned out to be a trivial matter, something too small to care about.
"Other people's girlfriends have it" is a simple sentence.
Zhang Long, who planned to spend Christmas with his girlfriend after working overtime in a hurry, lost the confidence to stick to it. The two people who had packed up began to hurt each other's hard-won feelings.
Zhang Long suddenly became very sad because of his girlfriend's words. But my girlfriend didn't notice it, let alone how to notice such emotions.
There is no time to calm down. The next day, Zhang Long quit his job, packed his bags and returned to Xi 'an without saying anything.
Of course, in order to get off work early, he was interviewed by his boss. Almost the whole company didn't leave. It's not that the boss is unreasonable, it's the end of the year, and the company's business is not much, so it's hard to get it. People will still put making money first.
Zhang Long, who was very wronged in his heart, thought that his work was unsatisfactory and he could always make up for it emotionally, but he hurried home and didn't even buy a bunch of flowers, which made his girlfriend emotional.
It was just a sad moment. Zhang Long lost his job a few years ago. Her girlfriend has just lost someone who really loves her.
Zhang Long didn't even know when this sadness appeared. Maybe it was the pressure at the end of the year or the pressure from his girlfriend. Anyway. He can't explain clearly.
Liu Hong has been unemployed for four months this year, and she has finally become a bad boy in the eyes of her parents.
I won't wake up until ten in the morning. The biggest workload every day is to brush the mobile phone. For the object introduced by parents, just meet and eat something delicious. Even cursed by other people's parents that they treat their children as meal tickets.
Four months later, Liu Hong is no longer the sensible and clever daughter in the eyes of her parents. Sometimes she even quarrels with her brother over a chocolate bar.
In any case, Liu Hong has no choice. She lost her job, so it is not easy to find a job.
One day at dinner, mom and dad talked about the past with the 26-year-old girl seriously.
"The tuition fee is 20w, the house is 60w, and it costs 30 W from small to large."
The fact that Liu Hong escaped finally came before her closest people. Liu Hong, who didn't know how to answer, burst into tears. Sudden sadness in my heart made her uncontrollable tears cold.
Shut the door and slept for three days. When parents really had no choice, Liu Hong packed her luggage. Leave home with red eyes.
She bought a ticket at random and went to Shanghai. Loneliness and inner sadness supported her to have her first job interview since graduation. She failed. Over and over again. A week later, she found a studio full of young people. After a simple interview, she was successfully admitted. The salary is pitiful, but one condition she can't refuse is control.
After working for a month. She finally got through the phone.
"I found a job and everything is fine."
DuDu ~ ~ ~ ~
After hanging up the phone, she looked at the night in Shanghai and wiped her tears. It seems that in this huge city, the cold wind blowing head-on, makes the girl more aware of the importance of independence.
Perhaps, there is really no such thing as empathy in this world. Occasionally, small things will make us live harder, but occasionally, small emotions will also make us do something that affects us.
In fact, there is really no good and effective comfort in this world. Occasionally, I will be laughed at when I talk to my friends, and I will suddenly cry when I look at the lights on the roadside.
In short, most of life is faced by us alone.
So at the beginning of the new year, I hope everyone of us can get ready. Do a good job of redeeming yourself at any time and trying to live a good life.
Let's go 202 1!
Let's go Everybody!
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