Recently, the program Creation 10 1 suddenly became "hot", along with Naomi. But for people like me who don't care much about the entertainment circle, it's better to say that Wang Ju brought "fire" to the program.
Naomi's "fire" seems accidental, but it is not.
When the whole network hacked her, she did not hide and feel inferior to the gap between her figure and appearance. On the contrary, it won the pick of netizens with super-positive three views, super-stable typhoon and super-explosive power, and reversed the turnaround.
The busybody dug up her "white" old photo and asked her if she would like to go back to the way she used to be. Naomi said, "I didn't know what the standard of beauty was at that time, so I learned to dress myself like others." But now, my life is in my own hands. "
Netizen pick Naomi, the purpose of pick is to be independent, confident and dare to be yourself.
To be yourself, you must first face your true self, instead of looking at yourself with the filter on the front lens of your mobile phone. Only by truly examining yourself, recognizing yourself, accepting yourself and turning off the filter of life can you be qualified to choose your own independence, strength, self-confidence and achieve your own success.
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There is a Japanese proverb that says, "Only one listener sings a hymn to himself".
Heine, a German poet, also said that "life can't blossom brilliantly from lies".
When I first went to college, when I introduced myself to students all over the world, I told everyone that I was from this city and my home was near the university. In fact, my home is in a small county around this city, and my grandmother's home is just near the university. I say this because I don't want to face my small town background.
At that time, I felt that there was nothing wrong with this small "filter", but I beautified myself and became one with my classmates at once. Everyone asked me about any local situation and soon became familiar with my classmates.
Unexpectedly, the real trouble came later.
My friend wants to come to my home, so I have to find various reasons to refuse. When my parents came to see me, I had to try not to lead the topic to the small town. The most important thing is that I have made a boyfriend with good conditions in all aspects. During the summer vacation, I suddenly sent a short message saying, "I miss you. I'm downstairs in your house. Come down and meet me."
This sentence is sweet to him, but it is on pins and needles to me. Because I can't be myself, I am busy playing with other people's lives, and I have to make up one lie after another.
At that time, I knew that opening a filter for my life had a butterfly effect. No matter how tiny the "filter" is, it may also fan up a tornado that cannot be covered up on the other side of life.
Later, I stopped talking about my origins and became more confident and energetic. It's easier to concentrate on your favorite major and live in this city after graduation.
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Some time ago, I met a friend at a dinner party. Let's call him Mr. A. I heard that his previous study experience was excellent. He has been studying in Singapore since high school and worked abroad after graduation. Everyone thought this man was capable, and everyone knew him. He suddenly became the center of the night.
Before long, there was no news of this person again. According to friends, some people think that he has good ability, good English and experience in studying abroad, and ask him to cooperate with the projects of overseas institutions. I didn't know it was like that until I tried. It turns out that his so-called study abroad is just a life filter for himself because he feels that his education is low. The real him, who didn't finish high school, went to work abroad and engaged in the catering industry.
If he had turned off the filter of life that night and been himself, he might have been invited to a cooperative restaurant now, or he might have done well.
Russian writer Geranan said that hypocrisy cannot create anything, because hypocrisy itself is nothing. Many times, we want to live the life we want, but we are fettered by this hope. We want to give ourselves a good life, but we dance in the chain because we open the filter.
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Interview with Yang Lan, a famous host, has visited more than 700 guests around the world since its launch, covering almost all important people in the world. Facing a large number of successful people at such a close distance, Yang Lan should have more say on how to be a successful person.
She once answered this question at the press conference of her new book "One Question, One World".
She said: "Success means being able to be yourself and be a better self".
Look, you have to be yourself first.
Coincidentally, the famous industrialist Kai-fu Lee also said in the book "Be the Best Oneself", "Success means constantly surpassing yourself, that is, being the best one. You can get confidence and happiness from success, and you can also get happiness and success from confidence. "
The movie The Truman Show should be regarded as the biggest life filter. Truman, played by Jim Carrey, has been the protagonist of a reality show since his birth. His parents, wife, friends and even all the people who appear in his life are actors.
However, Truman did not take the initiative to open this filter.
After discovering this magical filter, Truman, who had no worries about food and clothing and attracted much attention, resolutely decided to tear up this false dream.
At the end of the movie, Truman paddled a boat and set out for the "sea" to pursue the truth that should belong to him. With an elegant curtain call, Truman walked out of the studio door.
Turn off the filter, welcome to the real world and choose your true self. Although very cruel, but very calm.
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A person's growth begins with facing and accepting the true self.
At first we will feel torn, because that's the part we don't want to face. However, if you don't face it, you will never be able to stand on your feet and can only live in an illusory air. Shakespeare said that a false heart will not have strong legs. We don't know what we really need unless we know ourselves correctly.
Truth is like land, and we are like the sons of the earth in Greek mythology. Once we leave, our legs will be weak and we will lose the source of strength. Turn off your own life filter and accept your true self, so that you can pick up your confidence and strength and be a better self.
May we never have to open the filter of life.
Because truth is your best aura.