My wife has been complaining that Zhao4 ge always dialed the wrong number these days, so she called her cell phone directly and said:
"Zhao4 ge has been calling me for three seven and three nine.
Every time I pick up the phone and tell him your current phone number, he can't remember it every time.
I can't help it I always send him your phone number.
Did he call you?
If he does not call you, please call him back. He is your brother, older than you, and we should respect him. "
I said, "well, I'll call him back at work tomorrow."
At 9 o'clock the next morning, I just made time to prepare to call Zhao Ge. He called me first:
"Well, hello, how are you recently? What are you up to these days? We haven't seen each other for a long time. "
I said, "Zhao Ge, I'm fine, and so are you. I am just busy now, and I am still busy with my small business to support my family. "
I forgot if you didn't tell me. In this way, we haven't eaten and chatted together for nearly half a year. How time flies.
By the way, do you still work in Xicheng District State Taxation Bureau? "
Zhao Ge said, "No, I have been working in the city bureau for almost half a year."
I said, "that's so congratulations. Many people want to go back to the city bureau, there is no such possibility.
Because the salary in the city is higher, the performance salary alone is three times that of the following counties and cities.
You must have been promoted when you returned to the city. You must be a senior now. "
Zhao Ge said, "It's senior three now."
I said, "Then you get promoted quickly. The four high wages are over 10,000, and the three highs are definitely more. "
Zhao Ge said, "Not bad. I am old now and will retire soon.
I proposed to go back to the city bureau myself, and now the leaders of the city bureau have a good relationship with me and agreed. "
I said, "I congratulate you first. After you return to the city bureau, you can work with our old friend Director Li. "
Zhao Ge said: "Director Li retired last year."
I said, "Oh, what a surprise. Director Li is young. How can he retire? "
Zhao Ge said: "Director Li looks very young, but in fact he is five years older than me."
I said, "What exactly are you doing in the city bureau now?"
Zhao Ge said: "I am now the chairman of the trade union in the unit, and I am an idle person, thinking about how to play all day."
I said, "This job is also quite good. The chairman of the trade union is a member of the team. Congratulations."
Brother Chao said, "What kind of team members are just places to serve old comrades.
The main thing is that I have done enough, and the risk in the original position of number one is too great.
In addition, if there is a problem or a problem below, I am under too much pressure to bear these responsibilities.
I am 56 years old and feel old. I want to live a few more years.
We used to be good friends when we were young, and several of them died last year. "
I asked Zhao Ge, "Who died as our good friend last year?"
Zhao Ge said: "Xiao An, a public security officer, was under 45 years old and died suddenly at the end of last year."
I said, "Oh, what a surprise. He used to be the director of the police station and later became the head of the legal department. I can't believe how he died suddenly at the age of 45. "
Zhao Ge said: "Xiao An works overtime all day, relying on his youth and not paying attention to his health. He often drinks and drinks too much. His health has been disturbed.
He suffered from a minor illness, like a flood burst its banks, and his life passed away. "
I said, "I heard this news for the first time 1. It is a pity that Xiao An died before he was 50 years old. "
Zhao4 ge said, "Do you remember Liu from the industrial and commercial bureau who we played together? He also passed away last year. "
I said, "Oh, what a shock.
How did Liu die? He is the same age as you.
Liu is a special soldier. He is 1.85 meters tall and very strong.
In addition, more than half a year ago, I saw Liu get up and run in the morning. I used to play basketball with Liu and others. "
Zhao4 ge said, "Liu is very interesting. He has a great personality.
He had several conflicts with the head of the unit before. Because he didn't like some of their behaviors, Liu slapped the table with them.
But Liu has one thing, that is, drinking and making trouble.
Liu and I are old neighbors, our parents live together, and the two old people are family friends.
Once when I came home, I saw Liu drinking too much and fighting with his father.
His father tried to scare him with a kitchen knife, but Liu Yi took it away, and then he used it to grind it back and forth on his father's head.
Seeing this, I quickly grabbed Liu's knife.
Liu finally died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage in the process of drinking because of carelessness.
People's life is doomed, and it's useless to think about it.
Liu's good health was finally kicked off by him. "
I said, "It's a pity that Liu handed in a box lunch before receiving his pension.
It seems that this wine is inedible.
You are an expert on drinking. You can arouse the atmosphere of others by drinking water instead of drinking. "
Zhao Ge said: "I am not born to drink. I became allergic after drinking a glass of wine, and then I was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment.
But I really like drinking with my friends. "
I said, "When you drink water and watch others drink it, it's like watching a group of drunkards get drunk there and act like fools. Of course you do. "
Zhao Ge said, "Ha ha ha, I can't help it, but my friends all like me to drink with them. I use water instead of wine. Water is wine, and wine is water.
By the way, I also want to tell you about a good friend who died, that is, Boss Qiu, whom we played together. "
I said, "I was shocked by what I heard today. Boss Qiu is only fifty years old, and he is dead, too? "
Zhao Ge said: "Qiu always died before the Spring Festival.
I didn't know anything about this at that time. Later, Mr. Qiu's son Xiaoqiu came to ask me about taxes.
I casually asked: "Xiaoqiu, is your dad okay?"
Xiaoqiu told me: "One month before the Spring Festival this year, my father suddenly had a myocardial infarction. He was alone at home, and my mother and I went out.
By the time we got back, dad had already driven the crane west.
We called 1 10. When the ambulance arrived, just tell us we can't.
We still don't believe it. We dragged Dad to the People's Hospital for emergency treatment, but the doctor on duty told us that Dad was really dead and there was nothing they could do. "
I was shocked and didn't know what to say. "
I said, "It's a pity that Laoqiu is a very capable entrepreneur.
Laoqiu has a good business and personality, and always feels very practical with him. "
Brother Zhao said, "Laoqiu is from Handan, Hebei. I was introduced to him by one of my classmates.
He came to this city empty-handed and started from scratch, and then he took over the management of a carton factory, which brought this enterprise of more than 200 people back to life and pulled it back from the brink of bankruptcy.
In addition, he also founded a toy factory and a clothing factory, specializing in foreign trade processing.
Later, he saw the opportunity of real estate, so he set up several real estate companies and developed several communities.
We have been eating and chatting with Laoqiu since childhood, and we feel particularly cordial to each other.
I've never had anything to do with those rabbles. It is those who follow the rules and have a common language with me that I eat and chat with them.
However, I was sad for several days when I got the news of Laoqiu's death.
Now people may be old and don't want to get in touch with outsiders.
When we were children, all our friends felt very cordial, and others could not replace them at all. "
I said, "How old are you? You will always be 55 years old and less than 56 years old. Why do you always say that you are old? "
Zhao Ge said, "I didn't feel old until these good friends left me one after another. I used to just work and never thought about it. "
In fact, 40 years later, five years is a hurdle.
If you don't believe me, you are not tired at all at the age of 40. When you are 45, you will feel a little tired. After 50 years old, you feel tired. After 55, you feel more tired.
I didn't have white hair before I was 45. White hair began to appear after 50 years old. Now after 55 years old, my hair has turned gray.
It is said that it is over forty-three, which means that the eyes are beginning to spend.
Although I didn't think my eyes were a little flowery until I was 50 years old, my eyes really failed after I was 55 years old, so I went directly to match a pair of reading glasses.
Now I have to wear reading glasses when reading newspapers and magazines.
I don't know how many times you made out with your wife. I used to see Dabao every day.
In the middle is the radio and television newspaper, which is published once a week.
Anyway, once I turned 50, I basically talked for half a month.
Not if you refuse to accept your age.
The reason why I resigned from the highest position is because my sleep suddenly failed and I entered menopause in advance.
In the past, I could fall asleep within five minutes after I fell on the pillow for the first time, but now I can't sleep because I toss and turn in bed.
Sometimes I can't sleep after two or three o'clock.
There is also that although you can sleep in a daze, you are sweating on your hair, neck and chest and back after waking up.
My pillow towel was soaked with sweat. If I twist it with my hand, I can sweat.
I went to the hospital for an examination and found nothing wrong. Finally, the doctor said that I might be menopausal. "
I said, "Isn't menopause a woman's? Men still have menopause? "
Zhao Ge said, "I didn't know about it at first. After the doctor and I patiently explained, I realized that men also have menopause, and sometimes it is worse than women.
However, some men menopause earlier, and some men menopause later.
Everyone's menopausal reaction is different.
Some men died suddenly because of menopause maladjustment.
I want to understand that nothing matters, but living is the most important thing. "
I said, "Zhao Ge, what you said is very philosophical.
In fact, when people reach a certain age, living is more important than anything else.
Some people are billionaires or powerful people, but their lives are at a critical juncture and everything becomes zero.
Therefore, for yourself and your family, you still have to recuperate.
Power, reputation, wealth, money and so on are gone.
Nothing is more important than having a good body.
Especially at our age, we eat with an open stomach and don't eat much.
If you eat too much, you should think about how to lose weight all day.
Actually, think about it, we don't need many opportunities now.
It doesn't cost much to wear clothes. All the clothes I bought before are completely packed in that big wardrobe.
Some clothes were bought and left there, never worn again.
Eating at home by yourself for a month will not exceed 1000 yuan.
Is to go to the canteen all day, 20 yuan a day, only 600 yuan a month.
Two people 1200 yuan is enough, so you don't have to cook and clean yourself.
Now at our age, the children have moved out, that is, the husband and wife make do with a little food.
The aspect of living is definitely that everyone has their own house at this age, but some people may want to change to a bigger house or a better location, and it is definitely nothing to live in the current house.
The queue is private cars.
In fact, everyone in our family may be close to one car for everyone now.
And almost everyone our age has bought a car to drive.
Now I put that car in the parking space, ride a bike or take a bus every day, and basically walk to work near my unit.
Unless we want to eat out all day or invite people to hotels, we spend very little on food now.
So food, clothing, housing and transportation really don't cost much.
The main consideration now is what I can do after retirement.
Female cadres retire at the age of 55, and female employees generally retire at the age of 50, so by the age of 56, women have actually retired.
Men, regardless of cadres, can only retire at the age of 60, so is it 56? What can I do in the future? It is a question to be considered before a man.
56 years old is already an old man at work.
These old people don't contribute as much as the young people in the unit.
Everyone is old and comes from young people.
Units generally take care of these old people.
It's just that these old people really have to think about what kind of life they can live and what they can do after retirement.
Many cadres, including the top leaders of units, are faced with a very uncomfortable choice, what to do after retirement.
It seems to be an iron law not to return to the original unit after retirement.
A few years ago, some veteran cadres who were already in the second line have been looking for why they should do it early. After a few years, they stopped working in the second line, and their superiors gave them treatment to let these veteran cadres come to work again.
But because these people have adapted at home, the company has prepared desks and office chairs for them to sit and observe the eight-hour working day, and they are complaining bitterly again.
That's what people do. They don't let the old people come to work, so they look for them and let them work with others normally. They can't stand it.
It's really speechless.