When girls reach marriageable age, they often pick and choose the right ones, thus missing the ones that suit them or "choosing the wrong ones".
Choosing a girl to get married is a lifelong matter, and you must not be careless. But how to choose? Is it to marry someone you like? Or marry someone who pursues himself?
In fact, whether I love you or not, it must be for your own good.
Only when you are sure that a man really loves you and treats you well everywhere can you marry him with confidence.
As long as a man has a good character, really loves you and is really good to you, such a man is basically worthy of being entrusted for life.
In fact, as far as the current social marriage and love market is concerned, most girls are not in a hurry to get married, and many girls have low requirements for men. They just want to pick a boy who is compatible with the three views, has good eyes and is good to themselves.
As for the internet, there are always many boys who say that girls nowadays are very realistic, and they all look at money, houses and cars. This is inevitable, but it is definitely not the majority.
What a woman needs is nothing more than hoping that her partner can pamper herself like a child.
Therefore, if a woman can meet a man who treats you as a child's pet and a baby's pain, it will undoubtedly be a lifetime of happiness.
So how can unmarried women judge whether a man really loves himself?
1, the man who really loves you must remember your birthday and the anniversary related to you and send a gift. A gift is not a price, but a heart.
Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang were introduced and hit it off, and their relationship was confirmed two months later.
On Xiao Li's 2 1 birthday, many friends came and they all gave Xiao Li various gifts. Xiao Zhang came last. He only gave Xiao a limited edition companion doll.
Xiao Li's friend whispered in Xiao Li's ear, "What happened to your boyfriend? Why did he give you a toy? "
Xiao Li is not angry, but full of joy.
This companion doll was seen in the window of a shop when Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang were shopping together six months ago. Toys are not sold in the store, but accompanying dolls are just displayed and not sold. Xiao Li likes it in his heart, but he can't get it. He has been very frustrated.
This is a very small thing, but Xiao Zhang saw it.
On Xiao Li's birthday, I don't know what Xiao Zhang thought. He brought this doll to her.
Many times, gifts are not expensive, but hearts. What money can buy, for many people with a slightly better economy, is easy to get, but some things, perhaps worthless, represent a person's full love.
Therefore, an unmarried girl, a man who can remember your birthday, the anniversaries related to you and the things you like must love you.
If a man really loves a woman, their love must stand the test.
It is easy for two people to fall in love, but it is not easy to be together.
If a man really loves a woman, their love must stand the test of time and ups and downs. Otherwise, a long life, decades after marriage, in case of any situation, that day will be difficult.
Colleague Yang Yang and her boyfriend Dapeng have really been in love for three years. Seeing that Dapeng has passed the age of talking about marriage, Yang Yang brought Dapeng home.
As a result, Yang Yang's mother didn't agree with them, saying that Dapeng was not good enough for Yang Yang because of his average appearance and average economy.
But they love each other and don't want to be apart. That is, this year, Yang Yang suddenly fell ill and was admitted to the hospital.
Yang Yang took care of Dapeng during his hospitalization and helped Yang Yang bear all the medical expenses. He took care of Yang Yang in the hospital for half a month.
Yang Yang's mother was embarrassed and wanted to return the medical expenses and hospitalization expenses to Dapeng, but Dapeng refused. He said, "although my family's economy is not as good as yours, I can't afford my sweetheart's medical expenses, and I won't be wronged and left out."
Finally, Yang Yang recovered and was discharged from the hospital. Dapeng's sincerity to Yang Yang also touched Yang Yang's mother and agreed to their marriage. Finally, they got married. Now Yang Yang and Dapeng live a very happy life.
Dapeng and Yang Yang have stood the test of time and wind and rain. In the end, everything will be fine.
In the real society, there are not many that can stand the test. Many men swear to you when he has no money, "I will definitely give you happiness ..." But once one day, he has money, but what he does in the car is another woman.
Such a man must not share joys and sorrows with his partner. With such a man, you devote your youth to the cause with him, but in the end he will abandon you.
Therefore, a man who can't accompany you through ups and downs must be unreliable.
A man really loves a woman, and he will cook and do housework for you when you need it.
If your boyfriend doesn't help you when he is in love and thinks that housework is a woman's duty, such a man must not associate.
On the other hand, if a man knows how to care about you, he will naturally help you and do housework with you. You cook, he washes dishes, you clean and he washes clothes. In a word, he can't bear to see you busy alone.
Feifei, a female friend of mine, met such a man.
Feifei has been with her boyfriend for two years and has always been very distressed. In the past two years, whenever Feifei's boyfriend went to Feifei's house to catch up with the cooking time, he would help Feifei cook. Feifei cooks and he washes the vegetables. If Feifei wants to wash clothes, he will help Feifei mop the floor with washing water.
Feifei undoubtedly met a good man and was undoubtedly happy.
You know, Feifei's ex-boyfriend is a lazy and independent man. Feifei won't help no matter how busy she is, and even thinks that those jobs were originally done by women.
Fortunately, that man finally became his predecessor, and now Feifei has her own happiness.
The man who really loves you will be by your side as much as possible when you need it.
As the other half of our future marriage, if you encounter something and are in trouble, but he ignores your "help" and can't come to your side when you need him, then such feelings will be difficult to go on.
Lily, a friend, and Dahui, a boyfriend, have been together for a year. One weekend, Lily and Dahui were both on holiday at home.
At noon, Lily is cooking in the kitchen and Dahui is watching TV. Lily suddenly saw a mouse in the kitchen, which scared Lily to shout "Hello, mouse".
Dahui clearly heard and didn't know the sound, but continued to watch his TV. Lily even shouted several times, and finally Dahui walked slowly to the kitchen. "Isn't it just a mouse?" What's the fuss? "
I was so angry that Lily immediately sat down on the stool. Lily thought, "How will this feel to me before marriage?" ?
Later, I encountered several similar incidents. Every time Lily's boyfriend thinks Lily makes a fuss, Lily finally breaks up with her boyfriend.
Unmarried girls, if you get sick and catch a cold, your boyfriend will buy you fruit to visit you and take care of you at the first time; You are the first person to help you when you need help. No matter what happens, he can worry about his companion, so this boyfriend is reliable.
In fact, in love, whether a man is sincere to you is often reflected in every detail of life.
There is a feeling called caring for each other. The man who really loves you will always care about you and think of you, and every detail of life will be permeated with his deep love for you.
This kind of kindness to you may be just that you walk in the street in summer and he holds an umbrella for you to resist the summer, or you walk in the street in winter and he puts on a cotton-padded coat for you to resist the cold wind.
Love is for marriage, and marriage is for life.
And love is not only to enjoy sweetness, but also to test people's hearts.
If you are in love, the other party is unwilling to give sincerity, and the days to come will inevitably be unbearable.
Unmarried girl, finding a partner to get married is a lifelong matter, and you must not be careless. When looking for a boyfriend, you must observe more, understand with your heart, look at his character, and see if he is really good to you. After careful consideration, we can decide whether two people are really suitable.