1. It happened in an ordinary family, and the male owner was Jiang Xiaojie. Jiang Xiaojie's family is a reorganized family. Jiang Xiaojie's mother died when he was a senior in high school, and his father married his stepmother soon after. Although Jiang Xiaojie has always had incomprehension and resentment towards his father, he is a filial and sensible child. Watching his father and stepmother live happily together, he slowly accepted it. After growing up and getting married, Jiang Xiaojie could better understand the difficulties of marriage and his father, so he and his wife Xiaoya discussed taking the two old people into a new house to live together.
The young couple started their life happily. They go to work every day, and their stepmother and father help with housework. One day, Xiaoya gave a quarterly bonus of 20,000 yuan and invited his family out for dinner on the normal business day. I didn't know my mother-in-law asked Xiaoya to borrow money at the dinner table, saying that her parents had never asked for it, and I hoped they would help. Because her mother-in-law doesn't worry about food and clothing at ordinary times, Xiaoya and his wife want to know why her mother-in-law borrowed money. But her mother-in-law didn't say anything, just wanted Xiaoya to lend her money. Xiaoya and her husband Xiaojie, of course, refused to agree casually. Who knows that after work, my mother-in-law actually cut off water and electricity for them to cook, and asked them to return the 60 thousand yuan they gave them when they entered the new house.
2, real estate license plus name The purpose of mother-in-law borrowing money is to help her daughter, her daughter born with her ex-husband. My daughter's condition is not particularly good, but she talked about a boyfriend in the city. The man's family bought a house when he was about to talk about marriage. But the stepmother and daughter wanted the man's family to add their names, and the man's family refused on the grounds that the woman did not pay. Said that if the woman's family is willing to pay part of the money, then you can consider adding the woman's name. So the mother-in-law moved her brain to Xiaojie and Xiaoya, trying to force Xiaoya to hand over her salary as a mother-in-law.
However, Xiaojie and Xiaoya don't agree with their mother-in-law's request for their own families. Xiaojie and Xiaoya are usually busy at work, and get home at around 9 o'clock or 10 every day. Every time my mother-in-law takes advantage of this time to cut off water and electricity for them and not cook for them. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was once rigid. However, Xiaojie and Xiaojie's father are afraid of things and have never come forward to mediate. Finally, one day Xiaojie was working at home, and her mother-in-law pulled the switch, so all the work done on the computer was in vain. Jacko can stand it, but Xiaoya can't stand it, so he scolds her mother-in-law. In fact, I personally think this mother-in-law is also very selfish. She can't help her daughter, but she wants to ask her daughter-in-law and son for help. It's really wrong to let the daughter-in-law pay her salary to subsidize her daughter.
I am the master of this family. Finally, the mother-in-law admitted that she cut off the brakes for them. He also said that they did not fulfill their filial piety and asked them to return the previous 60,000 yuan to her, and also to return it to her according to the appreciation of the house. The unbearable Xiaojie told his stepmother that he was the head of the family and could return 60,000 yuan to him. But what he wants to honor and owe is his parents. In the end, Xiaojie returned 60,000 yuan to his stepmother, and his relationship with his father became stiff. Stepmother only cares about helping her daughter and has no time to care about anything else.
Although the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem, the daughter-in-law in this story is still very reasonable. I didn't say I wouldn't lend money to my mother-in-law, but I was afraid that my mother-in-law would be cheated and wanted to know what her mother-in-law would do with the money. But the mother-in-law has to treat her son and daughter-in-law in such an extreme way, which is nothing more than breaking their hearts. In fact, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be considerate of each other. Daughter-in-law doesn't ask her mother-in-law to treat herself as her own daughter, but does some due obligations and responsibilities. The mother-in-law does not ask her daughter-in-law to treat herself as her own mother, but only needs her daughter-in-law to be kind to her son and run their small family well.
In fact, the best way to solve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not to live together, because individuals have their own living habits and personalities, and conflicts are inevitable. Therefore, as long as we don't live together, distance produces beauty. In fact, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is solved by more than half. Like the evil mother-in-law in the above story, she asks her daughter-in-law to pay her salary, and if she doesn't pay, she will cut off water and electricity. I believe there will be less in real life. And no daughter-in-law can stand it, not even her own mother, let alone her mother-in-law. At this time, the male compatriots of Everbright will play a role, and hiding is inevitable.