Fangfang and her boyfriend met on a blind date, and they thought it was quite suitable, so they got along for a year and put the wedding on the agenda. Fangfang's family is very generous, saying that their family buys a house and a car in full, and the man only needs a bride price and decoration fee. Hearing this, the mother-in-law felt that this daughter-in-law was really sensible and quickly agreed. Later, after the coordination of the two companies, the man was responsible for the renovation cost of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, plus the bride price of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, totaling 300,000 yuan. Originally, the two families were very happy, but when they got married, the man's family felt that something was wrong. The house belongs to Fangfang's family, and so does the car. It has nothing to do with themselves, but they paid 6.5438+0.5 million for the decoration in vain. If they divorce in the future, their money will be wasted. So my boyfriend thinks Fangfang is still a little "scheming" about herself, and thinks that such a woman can't marry, but she still plays tricks on herself when she gets married, so she won't be fooled by her in the future? So we broke up.
In fact, Fangfang's boyfriend is not the only one who has encountered such a thing. Many people have met it. For example, before they got married, they asked their friends to borrow money to buy a house in full, but only the man's name was written on the house book, and they paid off their friends' debts together after they got married. If their marriage breaks up, the woman will not get a penny. Therefore, when you get married, you still need to find someone who pays wholeheartedly and does not play tricks on yourself. Otherwise, who knows what TA will do to you after marriage?
When two people get married, how should they manage this precious marriage and love?
Frank
Marriage is the combination of two families, and it also needs to be honest with each other. Only by being honest with each other will the other party not think you are an "unpredictable" person. Honesty is also the minimum factor in marriage. If both husband and wife can't be honest with each other, who can they be honest with?
Be loyal to each other and trust each other.
Loyalty is the most indispensable factor in marriage. Only after being loyal to each other can we trust each other, which is beneficial to both sides. If two people cannot achieve loyalty and trust after marriage, then there is no need to continue this marriage, just an empty shell.
Keep the passion
Some couples who have been together for a long time will inevitably have a tired mentality and feel that they are tired of aesthetics. They should maintain their passion, so as to maintain love and extend the "shelf life" of love. For example, two people can choose a weekend to go for an outing, fly kites or have a picnic. After a long time, they can experience a different life and what it was like to be in love at the beginning, so as not to make them just tired of daily necessities.
Keep communication
The most important thing in feelings should be communication and communication. How many lovers and lovers failed emotionally because of lack of communication, which led to misunderstandings and contradictions between them and finally parted ways. Therefore, when there are emotional problems, don't rush to quarrel or separate, but communicate first and know what the other person thinks first, so as to better resolve the contradictions between them and let them move towards a better future!
Actually, marriage is all those things. Although every family has its own problems, the essence is sometimes similar. Only by mastering the skills of marriage preservation can we have a happy family.
Today's topic: What tips do you have to maintain your marriage? Welcome to leave a comment.