Ms. Huang has been in love with her boyfriend for four years since her sophomore year. Because her boyfriend was addicted to games recently, Ms. Huang couldn't stand his performance and vented her temper, which led to the psychological pressure of the other party, so the man proposed to break up with Ms. Huang. Worried that her boyfriend would leave her, Ms. Huang searched online for the question of "how to recover after quarreling with her boyfriend" and wanted to know how to solve the emotional problem with the other party. So Ms. Huang found our happy teacher Zhang, hoping to get help and guidance to repair her relationship with her boyfriend.
After teacher Zhang's analysis, it is concluded that Ms. Huang is sensitive and suspicious in this relationship, lacking self-confidence and security. At the same time, she didn't control her emotions well and didn't know how to treat the opposite sex. After listening to teacher Zhang's analysis, Ms. Huang actively cooperated with the teacher's guidance, constantly changed herself, learned to manage her emotions, restrained her emotions, and learned to talk and communicate with her boyfriend. When getting along with her boyfriend, Ms. Huang let her boyfriend slowly feel her change, and her boyfriend also felt that Ms. Huang became gentle and considerate, and her temper became better.
At the same time, Ms. Huang's boyfriend's attitude has also improved, and she took the initiative to explain to Ms. Huang that playing games is to release the pressure at work. I often played games and ignored my girlfriend during that time. It's Ms. Huang's boyfriend. Ms. Huang did not complain again and expressed her understanding. In order to make their relationship better, Mr. Zhang further instructed Ms. Huang to get along with her boyfriend and reminded Ms. Huang to pay attention to her speaking skills. Finally, Ms. Huang's boyfriend took the initiative to make up with her, and they successfully repaired the relationship.
Breaking up and trying to save each other is actually about methods, not just saving them. Teacher Zhang gave the following three methods for reference:
First, don't be sensitive and suspicious.
It is not easy to understand each other. If you find that your boyfriend has been playing games frequently recently, you should observe each other's emotions and his actions and be good at discovering his "abnormality".
Many times a man vents his emotions by playing games, which is very stressful. Don't be too suspicious when he plays games. Don't always doubt that he knows the girls in the game. Be confident that he loves you and trusts him.
Second, we should understand the opposite sex thinking.
It is necessary to understand the thinking of the opposite sex and be good at discovering the inner needs of the other party, so as to "prescribe the right medicine." If you don't even know your other half, how can you save it? Know what he wants most, such as decompression, partner care and so on. If you find the other half in a bad state, take the initiative to care about him.
Third, emotional management should be well controlled.
If you think he ignores your feelings, please remember to tell him well and control your emotions, instead of losing your temper directly with the other party and making trouble without reason. This will only worsen the relationship between the two of you, thus accelerating the bad ending of the breakup. Therefore, we must know how to control our emotions. Emotional management in love is really important. When two people get along, if their emotions are not well controlled, this relationship will easily break down.
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