However, this is not asking you to lie, but asking you to express your emotions and feelings honestly, rather than expounding objective facts. Here is an example to better understand. Suppose today is your boyfriend's birthday, but you forgot. As a result, you bought a lot of things during the day, including bags, clothes, cosmetics, mops, sheets and hand sanitizer, and finally remembered his birthday when you went back. At this time, the money in your pocket may only be enough to buy a birthday cake, so when you get home, if you say, dear, you have been shopping all day, and you remember that today is your birthday, you can use the remaining money to buy you a cake. I guess once you say that, it can only be a cool song.
But if you say, honey, I thought of your birthday outside today, and the rest of the money will buy you this happy birthday. So, the first argument is, is it wrong to state objective facts? Of course there is nothing wrong. So will your boyfriend like it after you say it? He certainly won't. So when you want to write your name on the real estate license, the most crucial sentence is that my name is not on the real estate license. I am disappointed because I really want to have a closer relationship with you. In this way, the focus will shift to emotions and let him feel your attitude, not your needs.
Second, enhance their own value.
There is an idiom called "customer first", which we are all familiar with, but in love life, what can be done is absolutely rare, even if it is only in marriage, few people occasionally think of it. Throughout history, respectful couples, even if they eat a simple meal, are happy, and their lives are usually getting better and better, and finally they have been sublimated and transformed. Many investigations and studies have also confirmed this. For example, in the Spring and Autumn Period, Yu Que was eventually promoted to be a doctor in the Qing Dynasty, Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun, and finally Sima Xiangru became a poet in the post-population. Therefore, it is not difficult for us to find that people who know how to treat customers are all people of great wisdom.
In fact, to enhance your value is to have the ability to be a man's helper. To put it more bluntly, you should have the resources to change. For example, you can help him develop better in his career, just like Bai Lingyun, a great strategist in Sima Yi's works. Or you can raise a better generation for him, or more directly, you can take out some money and buy this house with him. If you say so, most men, even the prospective mother-in-law, won't say much. Of course, many people want to rely on their own beauty, which is good. If that's what you think, you must hurry up, or beauty will depreciate at an ancient and rapid rate. Although the real estate is depressed this year, compared with the appearance, the house is still very valuable.
Finally, I have two words to advise you:
First, don't give birth as an excuse, as if other women can't do it.
The second is to know more about the marriage law, which is the most effective means of protection. Ok, that's the end of today's content. In fact, women, like men, want to get what they like, and the best way is to constantly improve themselves and let their value rise.