In the nearly 12 years since I entered the profession of psychological counseling, whether it is a group psychological counselor, a
In the nearly 12 years since I entered the profession of psychological counseling, whether it is a group psychological counselor, a visitor of psychological cases, or a classmate of psychology, from the gender point of view, it can be divided into two or eight proportions, that is, there are more boys and girls, which has a great relationship with men's natural psychological habits.
1, a man is born strong and thinks he is strong, so if you admit that you have psychological problems, you are killing his strength and losing his dignity. Therefore, men sometimes can't get through this psychological hurdle, so they don't want others to know, don't want to study in class, and don't want to do psychological counseling, which makes many men avoid the needs of psychological problems;
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65438+1October 28th is the World Men's Health Day designated by the World Health Organization. I believe many people don't know. But when it comes to March 8, I'm afraid I don't know. It can be seen that men's health, including mental health, has not been paid enough attention.
0 1, men have the traditional psychology of not crying easily.
The traditional psychology of China people thinks that men are the pillar at home and the core of their career in society. They often show success and generosity in front of people. It covers up the inner feelings of helplessness, disappointment and anxiety, and makes people mistakenly think that they are too strong and need psychological help.
Women are emotionally fragile and willing to express themselves. In the case of family psychological counseling, most women seek help. In fact, once you enter family therapy, you will find that men sometimes suffer no less psychological damage than women.
However, a large number of social surveys and medical statistics at home and abroad show that more and more diseases are attacking men and seriously threatening their physical and mental health.
As far as men's mental health is concerned, some experts pointed out that with the increase of age, men will also have a series of symptoms caused by the decline of hormone secretion level in the body, such as insomnia, fatigue, palpitation and depression. In other words, men also have menopausal syndrome.
Experts also said that the incidence of male climacteric syndrome is on the rise, approaching the majority of young adults. The survey shows that the incidence rate of men aged 40-49 is 32.8%.
In fact, it is quite rare, especially in the third, fourth and fifth tier cities. I think family should come first, then schools, companies, organizations, and finally people who are mainly responsible for themselves. At present, the loudest voice from the outside world is your position, your position and how much money you earn. It seems that you will feel better only if you reach the position in the eyes of others, not to mention what others will say to you at this time. The right to speak in society has always been the main battlefield of fame and fortune. Now there are really thousands of people in Qian Qian who need psychological help. Most people bury this part of their needs in the deepest place because of their feelings and face. In fact, the rapid development of Zhongtong this year is already in the era of real economy. The salary is much higher than before, the food is much better than before, and the clothes I wear are also very particular. Although there have been so many improvements, there are fewer happy people and less time to maintain family happiness. So what the country should do now is to educate people and make every family happy. This is the true prosperity of a country. Thank you for your discussion.
I think China society is too hard on men now.
Generally, I often see this question, "boyfriend XXXXXX, should I break up?" Most girls don't know the details, so they will say, how did you find such a boyfriend? Did you find a boyfriend from the trash can? Didn't this man break up and keep it for the New Year? But if a man asks such a question, what will everyone say? I asked what was going on, and I said you were a man. Give up your girlfriend.
When men and women quarrel, boys should bow their heads and admit their mistakes. Married boys should have a house and a car, be tall, have a good job and be talented, and they should be given a bride price in the countryside. Boys should be taught to stand tall, be brave and have a sense of responsibility. The tradition in China is that men are the pillars of the family ~ If girls put themselves in each other's shoes, and you are a boy, would you be Alexander? I think you will collapse. You should be the pillar of the family, you should be responsible for the financial resources of the big head, I should have strength, and it is normal for my girlfriend to have a male god. When you look at a beautiful woman, you will be spit out and put yourself in the other person's shoes. It's too difficult, you will collapse and feel very tired.
Before I was 25 years old, I thought that no matter what happens when girls are angry, boys must come to coax me. Girls can lose their temper at will and play with their temper. Although they may feel willful, they don't think there is anything wrong with the male-female model. With the growth of age and experience, I think China boys are asked too much.
Perhaps a lot of things are gender-neutral, and the so-called equality between men and women is often promoting feminism, rather than really realizing equal communication and peer-to-peer communication. As a woman in China, besides being more independent, she should be more considerate, gentle and considerate.